Do looks and religion really matter?

i have been dating from past few months. The guy im dating is really kind and caring and understands me lik anything. The only problem is i get hurt when someone says he is ugly and not my type. I fell for him cuz of how he is and not his looks. He really tries his best to keep me happy anytym. secondly he is from differnt religion and both the families are against our bond. sometimes i feel its not worth it and i should give up. But he never lets me go although i fight and argue with him a lot, he always gives me hope saying that everything will b fine. Should i continue with this relationship? I dont want to hurt him either
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  • It's fine that you like him for who he is, and he sounds like a good kid. If you're having second thoughts and really struggling with the right decision, I think you should move on to another situation. Take some time off, away from dating him, and really think about it. I think you should find someone that you love without regrets, without any catches, whose family you don't have to fight tooth and nail, just to see him. Find someone that you can be with normally. You want normal silly problems, arguments, disagreements on what food to eat, etc. Not major life issues that will follow you every single day, every time you talk to your parents or he talks to his. That sounds like setting up for failure in the long run.

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  • Stay with him, don't let him go. Take this crooked path in life and travel all the way. He loves you, you love him. Your families... That is always a hard one to fight against. But please don't succumb to their opinions; build up your faith in the guy you are dating. Maximum effort. Love him. Let yourself love him, if you truly do. Take the chance. But only if you really want this.

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  • You have to think more so what your values align with. For instance is religion a deal breaker or would it be more so of a perk for you and your family. As for not up to your level of beauty as your friends say, as long as he makes you happy, you have good chemistry, and looks doesn’t matter a whole lot to you, your friends comments can be just that.

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  • Religion is an incredibly important aspect of a relationship. Don't pursue someone you disagree with religiously: you won't be functioning with the same basic view of life, and there will inevitably be problems. If you both disagree with your parents, and agree on some other religion, as long as you and he believe the same thing, it's possible, but hostile families can also be troublesome.

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  • If you guys really like eachother and enjoy eachother then there should be no reason not to date. Parents will be parents when it comes to their kids dating someone it is only natural.

    by the way nuce spelling 😂😂

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  • In the end it's you who has to live with him. Not your parents or the society but you. So as long as you are fine of him being ugly as you said, it's perfectly okay to fight for him.

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  • religion matters. A LOT. looks? not much. The polls are too bipolar. there is no good poll answer

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  • Dont let others be deciding about your life. It is your and your only responsibility.

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  • To me religion matters more than looks.

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  • Looks matter to me but not religion

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    • But it's not wrong to love someone if he does nt look that good not at all... That is divine infact

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