Most Helpful Guy
Yes. They really deserved better. I was focused on sex and it was forced as hell. I wasn't interested, and people kept telling me I could do better and so could she.. but the worst part was that I believed them. Leading to distrust, anxiety and distancing. The worst part is that in fact she did do better ofterwards.
Most Helpful Girl
i think the person feels maybe as though they know they aren't good enough for the person,
or feels as though they aren't putting in as much effort but likes them enough to say that they should get better
they could also be feeling bad and say that as to loosen up the pain?