Do you search for love? Or wait for it?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I used to search. I've stopped. Too much hurt from the abusive manner too many ladies go about rejecting. My career is not worth pursuing you.

    Ladies, you're the ones with the most to gain and the least to lose from pursuing. You do it. This culture makes it too risky for a man to do anything but wait.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Neither, I just live everyday that I can without focusing on trying to find someone or wanting someone to come to me. I have found that being this way makes you be ina more natural behaviour and that ends up attracting people in the most surprising moments and ways

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  • I have no choice but to wait for it - I can't turn on feelings that aren't there simply because I want to or because I'm supposed to.

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  • I wait for it. I find no use to search for something such as love, since I've never felt it towards anyone ever in a romantic way. Searching for it will only cause for grief and waste more time. Waiting for it is the only option.

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  • Only bad things come while waiting. I'm not particularly searching, but I have my both eyes opened in case a road to it appears. Then I'm taking that road as fast as I can!

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  • Neither one. I live my life without waiting or searching for love. This way I'm never disappointed.

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  • Make it simple
    Those who make the first step, search for it and the rest wait.

    U guys can relate

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  • love is not a feeling... people of the enslaved mind are taught that it is a feeling... in fact love is an act. the actions taken by others that you see will show you love. observe the world around you.

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  • My latest approach is to wait for love to find me but I am giving love away in order to make me easier to find.

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  • don't wait for the prince, go find him yourself. I asked out my boyfriend and now we r close to our one year anniversary

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  • Wait for it
    If you search for it it you will have to settle
    Let love find you
    True love comes only when you least expect it or think of it

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  • wait for it. true love doesn't come from intentionally looking for 'the one'

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  • I've waited for it, but after a breakup I've been tempted to search.

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  • Yeh both. Feel like im always searching though. But slowly. Gotta find good opportunities so that i don't hurt myself emotionally.

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  • Wait for it. It's not that important for me to go looking for it. But on the other hand if I do find it, then so be it

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  • I don't have to do anything. Guys come after me on a daily basis. Not bragging.

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  • Well I wait but I also search cause I got a line full of guys

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  • I wait for it... I feel it's forced when it's searched for

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  • love comes when you are ready so i just live my life and if it comes good

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  • I have been searching since 2 years now but yet no success.

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  • Well no i just live the life normally. No need to chase anything but living life to the fullest

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  • "The male finishes his nap and checks wether any females have appered."

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  • both
    you search for it... and then wait for it later

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  • You try and search for it. But it will find you in the end. It's keeping it that's tricky. lol

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  • You always end up searching for it but it finds you when you don't expect it

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  • Searched for too long. Now I believe it will come alone

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  • I'd wait rather than getting hurt from wrong ones..

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  • Was searching for it but coz of the recent events i wanna wait

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  • Do both see and u see a better outcome ;)

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  • I am doing both at the same time 😄

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  • Wait for it

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  • Wait.

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  • I wait to love to come to me, see I'm real shy..

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  • im tired of searching, so im waiting for it

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  • Doesn't matter i won't find it anyway

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  • Wait for it

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  • wait for it

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  • love comes when we least expected

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  • kind of both?

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  • I kill for it

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  • No need to search for love

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  • Tried both, non works 😂

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  • Love is a path you follow that tends to lead you.

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  • I do both

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  • Both

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  • Being passive will get you nothing worth having

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  • Just follow your heart

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