I just read a take in gag, where a black guy said he wasn't attracted to black women. How can someone not be attracted to someone that resembles themselves? I hear
a lot of black men say things like this, and it seems its meant to make black women feel hopeless. I'm black and married to a white guy. He married as a single mother at the time, so I know that there are men in this world who value black women. Its sad that black women are the only group of women who are ganged on by Everyone! Black women need to be tough in this world, because they are always picked on. To any black girls reading this, you are beautiful, dark or light skin you are beautiful.https://www.girlsaskguys.com/other/q2923755-am-i-a-racist
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Its not a preference if it is your own ethnicity, its called self hate.
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Black men are the only race of men that hate their own women as a whole, its self hate.
One thing is if man finds another woman out of his race and they click or whatever and be together that's fine, but when a person in this case a black man purposely shuns their own kind especially if that person is a good woman that tells there is a serious underlying of self shame and hatred within that person that they try to replace or fix with dating another person outside their race to make themselves feel better about their insecurities.
Moreoever, in the end they will hate themselves more and in the process their self loathing self is going spread and impact the person they are with since you can only love and treat another person as good as you treat yourself.
Black men need to understand that they can't be white, Asians, Arab etc. Even if your kid happens to be white as snow you're still going to be black at the end of day and belong to the black community in the eyes of society.
Embrace your black women. They are your sisters.
I can't see myself turning my back my Hispanic sisters that look like the beautiful women in my family. I just couldn't do it..
Some black guys don't because they take a handful of women and extrapolate what they've experienced to everyone else, that's one reason.
The other is because some of them just aren't attracted to them. No one can decide what they're attracted to no more than they can control the weather. It's called having preferences. And no, it's not self hate if it's you're own race. That's not even the right word because that means hatred of yourself. I'm not my own race, I am me.
It's true no matter what race of people you look at, some may prefer others of different races. I personally prefer European, white and Asian women and sometimes Latinas. Doesn't mean I hate black women, most of them just don't do it for me (there are some beautiful black women out there though)
It did use to hurt when I was in college, as my attraction centered only around black men. But now—at 30–it doesn’t hurt anymore. I’ve come to be and let be; be happy and let/ enjoy others being happy.
@JTurkey ouch! How will I ever put myself together after that insult... maybe I should write a story about all the fucks I give. I’m sure that story would be longer than your dick.
who cares if he's white lol maybe he looks like the bottom of my shoe, just cause he's white and with a black girl doesn't make it special lol
black girls on average are less feminine... they are thick, have strong muscle tone, deep voices, manly hair, and large feet and hands all which most white girl's do not have
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy wow a guy is hat bashes black women is cool? You might be just as sick in the head as he is! This guy is a closet homosexual and he probably has sex with his mother.
Attractiveness knows No colour... as a male, you just don't wake up and say I will be attracted to only this race... if one prefers a certain type of a woman, so let the it be... I don't think that should bother another person that much
There are so many black guys who love black women, compared to those who claim to be attracted to other races only... I think it's better to focus on the more than the few with different preferrence
Im not againced someone having. A preffured and not prefured partner. There are black girls I've hit on and vic versa. The only thing a few have done to turn me away was have a boisterous and defencive additude towards me when it wasent warranted
To say that only black girls are picked on is truley incorrect. Korean and chinese men have said they prefure their sons to marry japanees girls just because they belive rhey will be submisive. Whats your take on this? Your not the only female of a race that is seen or treated unfairly
Lol. So you baseing this off one study that is shown to have only two black kids who we have no back ground on and your telling me this is valid? And how is this tied to slavery? Your argument here is weak as rice cake
Right. Is that with consideration of tge kids up bringing, where they live, what social politics they can grasp at the time, age at the time of the test, and their understanding of what slavery was for black people? There is a mass of variable to consider and i doubt every test cover all of that.
Same way I feel about white guys who prefer black women - that's their choice. We're allowed to have a preference. Some guys like boobs, some like butts, does that mean they hate all women below a C cup?
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I'm black and honestly don't mind black women. It's usually their personality that I hate. Because us blacks are raised up "southern" wanting to be tough, and feared, and gang-like ( not me and my family). I can't stand people who act indecent on purpose, no matter the race. It just so happens MOST not all, are brought up this way. That's why I've never dated an African-American girl. HOWEVER, they are as beautiful as anyone else, if only they could have beautiful personalities too.
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I hear this all the time where I'm from and most of my black friends prefer Asians or white girls. Apparently black girls are *too much".
"Too much" what, may I ask? Genuinely curious. I remember when the whole Tiger Woods thing broke and I read somewhere that there was a big backlash by black women, as it seemed all the women he was having affairs with were white? I don't know if this is true of not? Why would black men prefer Asian or Caucasian?
@Jamie1865 I have no idea I'm not black lol. I just know that is what almost all of them said and some don't know each other as they are in different circles.
I also don't think having a preference is racist. That's like saying it's sexist for me not to fuck men.
@ThisDudeHere This is what I mean. You're making it a race thing, look at your language "having affairs with their own kind". So 'Black'' people are their own kind?
Lol I'm not white but even if I was I could understand that. For a long time I prefered black men over whites but now I've changed and I prefer white 👌🏼 that might change as well.
And yeah you're still a racist. You just generalized all white people to not being so able to understand a simple thing. Like no one prefers other race over whites rightt 🙄
Just because i married a white guy doesn't mean i don't like my own. Its self hate when someone doesn't like someone that resembles themselves. You never hear white guys complaining that they arnt attracted to white women. Only black guys do this so if you are not black you wouldn't understand.
But then the video defeats your argument- if, by the looks of it, all black people are conditioned to self-hate, then why only men supposedly do it whereas the women somehow overcome it? Could it not be that this kind of conditioning actually does not influence people as much but in reality it's likely a certain set of characteristics that black women all have that turn off black men? Such as being feisty and what not?
My argument remains - it's not "just" self-hate that makes black men avoid black women. Because if it really was entirely safe hate, neither would the women want the men. This is what I hear from black guys all the time - it's the black female attitudes that they dislike the most, not their skin colour.
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