Do you prioritize girlfriend/boyfriend or your friends?

  • My partner
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  • Friends
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  • I used to prioritize friends. Now that I am grown up I prioritize partner.

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    • I believe it's not necessary to prioritize relationship unless you are engaged/married. Saying from personal experience, this makes heartbreaks less painful.

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    • But @Asker... You're under 18?

    • I want to know the asker's age now.

      And I did say 'until you are engaged or married' so I obviously meant unless you are grown up. You didn't read it yet?

Most Helpful Girl

  • My boyfriend because I love him and he lives far anyway so I really miss him, I like my friends especially my bestie and I wouldn't hurt them by prioritizing them over my boyfriend anyway, so I avoid to let that happen, like...
    For this Valentine's day I don't know if me and my boyfriend can meet, so I'm not making any plans with my friends to disappoint them but anyway my bestie already told me she will give me all her support in case I need, happy friends happy boyfriend 🤗
    Maybe not happy me but that's my fault...

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What Guys Said 65

  • The girlfriend has a closer relationship with you than platonic friends. Of course, there is room for both in your life.

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  • I have so many friends but when they get married or get a girlfriend I never see them anymore. That is really unfair and selfish really. Yes, spend time with your spouse or significant other but don't disappear completely. I shared my time between friends and girlfriends.

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  • Both. The person you commit to should be important, but friends were there before and will be there after if it doesn't work out. The only time a significant other should be a priority over friends is if you make a commitment for life, like marriage.

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  • I believe that your partner should be just as much of a friend as she/he is your partner. and in some cases your best friend. but even so i would try not to prioritize one over the other because certain situations call for more prioritization then others

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  • Friends first until we were married. Then wife comes first. Always.

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  • Basically who comes first. If I have plans with my partner, my friends get a no; and If I have plans with my friends my partner gets a no. but in other hand the importance of what I have to do with them or I want from them is a matter too.

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  • My partner of course, but I still make sure to spend time with my friends, just as I want my wife to spend time with her friends.

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  • Yes but I also don’t break promises to anybody. So I’m not going to flake on a friend — except for life/death emergencies of course.

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  • I'd prioritize girlfriend but if I made plans with friends I wouldn't cancel just because she wanted to hangout that day, unless she would have an emergency

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  • I don't prioritise either. If I make plans with one person then i stick with it.

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What Girls Said 45

  • I would prioritize my partner if we were in a serious relationship and my friends if I was single. I just think it's important to have your partner's back always if you plan on sharing your life and being intimate with them.

    That being said, I would never abandon my friends <3

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  • Kind of both equally, but a little more towards my best friends because after 8 years, they're still here by my side after all the guys we've been with.

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  • To me it’s friends but I’ve never been in a serious long term commitment (life long sort of thing) so I don’t know how I’d feel then. Friends are going to be there for you all the time though so...

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  • My friends are very important to me, but my relationship with my boyfriend is pretty serious at this point so he is my priority. If our relationship was more casual, friends would be more of a priority.

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  • I prioritize both because let's be honest friendships and relationships come and go and if all I did was put my boyfriend first then I would be neglecting my friends and if I put my friends first then I'd be neglecting my boyfriend. I don't believe in those sayings about putting your friends before your significant other because it's just wrong.

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  • Friends tbh. They're the ones that are always gonna be there for you. And if you breakup with your partner they are the ones that will be there for you. Friends are always there for you

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  • My man, I live with my friends, I see him less often. He gets priority.

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  • I don't have a partner and I don't even have friends to prioritize.
    So myself I guess.

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  • My boyfriend has been by my side for 5 years. My friends come and go or are newer than my relationship so definitely my boyfriend

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  • Real friends stay with me forever, my partner can go anytime

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