Is being single worse for a guy or a girl? (Page 2)
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Girls because society looks down on us for me. A guy can be single and deemed a bachelor while a lady is deemed incapable of finding/keeping a man.
Yes but he has to give off the impression that he could get in a relationship if he wanted too, otherwise he is deemed as incapable too.
A girl can lower their standard if they want to keep a man
@ovi2boss Why did so many women upvote this? this isn't true at all single guys are viewed as being incapable of getting a girlfriend all the time.
@Ironlak282 because girls support each other even if they are saying dumb things šš
This really depends if the guys get girls or not. Like if he can date and have sex it's not viewed that way if he's a virgin or unable to get a girl then yeah.
And with this she maybe right as if a girl goes with both high and low standards and her relationships ends she is definitively viewed as fail or something like that. It maybe this or other fact but they have their cup of tea also
Definitely women.
In general, women have a time limit on being single. I'm talking about bearing children. The older woman gets, the higher the chances of complications and birth defects.
It's equally sad for different reasons, women have to pay for everything and men want to rape everything.
tf did i just read?
@TheUglyMan some real shit, is what you just read.
Ok...
@TheUglyMan crazy bitch
More like real bullshit. Lol
i'd say for a girl it's worse. cause as a guy you can go and ask girls out. while this is an option for girls too, it's not as widely prefered by men for a woman to do that. so i'd say for a woman it's marginally harder to do something about it.
Hate to say that but it is definitely women especially after the age of 25. Like males at age 30 or over and single are deemed to be okay living the life and stuff vs females are like unworthy of anything not being able to keep a guy and this that
Is that what you believe or a societal projection that your commenting?
@Charleslvajr it is not what i believe, it is how women are treated in this society. if you don't believe me, skim questions asking "am i too old to be single?" and then guys flock to answer "yes a woman's market value is until 25" "i prefer someone way younger than me for biological reasons" blah shit. Unfortunately most men on this website are closedminded and that represents the society in rural areas.
And how should a man that is openminded think?
If I was looking to redo my procreation period, I wouldn't look to get involved with an older woman for that fact. For some reason women think men aren't allowed an option or preferences in who they mate with.
@Charleslvajr That is because women tend to strive in their teens and then when the glory is over they wonder why they are single.
Is the fact that they have multiple options and tgey remain with less or zero according to their standards.
It ruins guys social value and it's just a snowball effect of them making it harder to get more women whereas women does not sure how long you single you can find a guy to have sex with you at any point
It is not supposed to be a bad thing for any gender in the first place.
Some people crave the attachment of relationships and are traumatized when it's not there.
@Charleslvajr very bad. They need help.
Just balance. It's balance they need.
Definitely worst for guys. Girls are pretty much born with happiness. Thus is why Iām still a virgin.
I am too and how you plan to lose your virginity?
@ovi2boss After Iām married.
Born with happiness. My wife will be ecstatic to learn this. All the same, I applaud your moral stance.
I prefer a slut over a virgin.
@ovi2boss as you want. Still that's your choice.
@Charleslvajr they treated me better then a girl who had relationship or virgins šš
@ovi2boss I've never been in a relationship with a virgin so I know where you're coming from. But I can't fault a person who waits.
@Charleslvajr Where I came from? šš
Fair enough.
@ovi2boss It seems you misunderstood @Charleslvajfās first repl to this opinion. He wasnāt mocking me. You took it the wrong way, and instead of thinking for yourself you decided to mindless follow what you thought appeared to be other peopleās interpretation of a statement and ended up shooting yourself in the foot. This shows your English sucks and a total lack of respect for the language given the negative outcome of your usage of it. Get out of here.
Please explain it. Do you mean that guys drive more crazy when they don't have sex? In my opinion, that's true, but sex isn't all.
@ritxi Itās funny how all the girls downvoted my opinion but not one of them have the courage to refute my assertion with a sound rebuttal.
If it helps, I'm one of those who's proud of you. Cheers.
@Charleslvajr Thank you. I appreciate it.
First of all I did talk with you not with Charleslvajr I get in conversation with him only after he replied at my comment. I do have the right to speak if you feel bad about it you can block me.
If I somehow misundertood him that's my problem it can happen I am not a mind reader.
I don't think it's a gender specific thing. It's bad for people who think being single is inherently bad, not so much for people who are fine with or enjoy being single. For those people it's not bad.
Worse for women because we are suppose to have children and a husband. Without that people look down on us.
I don't know whats up with the dislikes but I understand your perspective! It's hard! I understand western culture might be a bit easy but in certain cultures, people do get looked down sadly!
Children is easy to have them the thing is finding someone who's willing to be devoted.
@ovi2boss says the guy who will never know what its llike to have a kids nor what its like to find a good husband
@Advicer_01 Thank you for understanding
I do understand this being young and beautiful makes girls seek attention and they have plenty of it increasing their expectations for the right guy maybe even bagging a few studs and when the period is over guess what it supposes to be hard.
It's said girls are mature then guys but some prove they aren't
Females. A lot of their social status is based on their sexual attractiveness and in the female hierarchy where they compete attractiveness is generally one of the core elements for power.
Worse for girls, loads of guys love the single life.
While you often hear women complaining about it, or being jealous of their taken friends.
No way man. See my comment.
@Anon-ymous1 Your comment was just about the differences in difficulty, not really what's "worse".
I can think of a whole host of things that are more entertaining than women... Cars and travelling are two to start with. Having a girlfriend or a wife is just a piece of happiness, not the whole cake.
Yeah but you can't fuck your car man.
Girls. We are emotional 😭. We express it more. A guy can just pay someone to sleep with him to fill his needs. Unless he very emotional 😭.
I had to down vote that. Men have emotional needs as well, we're just abused if we dare express them.
@Charleslvajr regardless, of true feelings and inner feelings. I am speaking form a girl viewpoint. I am trying to say guys have that super power that they can focus on better themselves and living life. While girls are more emotional and encouraged. There is a disadvantage about emotion...,
Understand. I had to point out the fact though. It's not a challenge just the truth.
@Charleslvajr okay I am sorry you feel neglected
Depends considering guys receive more neglection then girls. Some can deal with some can't.
I'm married hon, I'm not neglected. Its just necessary to remain women from time to time that men are also feeling creatures. For some reason women seem to forget that.
I meant remind women. Damn autocorrect.
Guys, because it's involuntary. Women can get laid at the drop of a hat.
Single guy may have depression when get goes after 30 but females can get attention from anyone if they wanna be with them or not
Im 46 and my entire life single so imagine I f i could be depressed
But dont u feel lonely sometimes
u mean lonely by not having a boyfriend or even date someone, even if it is nothing serious?
@kitty71 That's strange. You could literally go into the street and say you wanted someone to come home with you and you'd have plenty of offers. It would take all of five minutes.
But i doubt if i could ever ask some stranger to come with me
Exactly my point I won't ask a stranger to come home to be with me, I will never do that
In society it is desirable for man to have a lot of sexual partners, and for woman only one and not too early.
Truth.
Typically for a woman. Reason being a woman has a short window were she can be physically desirable compare to men.
Worse for a girl hands down. For guys people think he's just fucking about. For girls people assume she's not desirable enough
Being single as a girl is definitely looked down upon people think you just can't get laid
Sorry but at your age it shouldn't be an option yet.
What having a boyfriend. I am never gonna give up my virginity.
unfortunately, the exact same thing can be said for a male as well. If a man is single he's not masculine enough to lay the pipe, Fortunately for the men, they can lie about getting laid & they're praised for it.
Wow women have proof that they are not virgin
Lol it's soooooo easy for girls to get laid
@Tasos96 It's a maturity level. My son is also 13 and I don't want him in bed with anybody yet.
@Charleslvajr I agree I was just replying to her comment
@Tasos96 cool
That is not what I was trying to say some adult women cannot get a man right away and people thinks she just cannot get laid mostly because of their looks.
I see. I don't fully agree but I see what you are saying.
Probably a girl cause she she's supposed to feel wanted.