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I don't know the best time to tell. My partner told me she was raped a year ago. Told me about a week ago.I damn near set off right then to kill the guy. She still knows him.She talked me out of it. Assuming she's telling the truth she hardly noticed it was happening at first.I think how you tell them is more important. She sort of just blurted it out because she remembered it happened. (She'd previously forgotten).I wouldn't know how to tell someone that, but that's more important in my mind.
Mental problems I would want to be aware of as soon as possible so I can be aware of what their needs are but abuse/rape they can tell me about when they're ready
Prior to me getting into a formal relationship with her. I would like to know what i'm getting myself into, and it'd be pretty messed up from the girls part if she kept that a secret.
I would think pretty quick. at least at the point you are sure you're interested in being with that person. Not only for their sake but you will need to see how they handle that info too.
Well I'd want to know as soon as possible but I wouldn't know the right time to ask.
my so does have a mental problem aand was abused
before we even start dating
In the learning phase of the relationship.
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