It fucking kills me, my girlfriend is bigger girl but I fucking love her. But it hurts me inside when her family does this, I always stick up for her tho. Her Grandpa is the worst one, he always tells her "outta put you on a diet" or always tells her to lose 40 pounds. How can I tell him to quit it? I mean I'm with her, and he does it all the time. What's he doing when I'm not there. I can tell it hurts her cause she's cried too many times about it.