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I did and the reason was that we really enjoyed each other and felt very close, but due to being from very different countries and cultures as well as not being able to stay in the same city it was obvious that it was temporary. It was my best experience, because we tended to be more open and less serious about some issues we had
Yes, because he changed my mind for a long time he wasn't mean to me and he put effort into his life and cared about things. But he was older, never wanted anything besides someone who would always smile for him and the sex, and I was fine with that for a long time until he changed.
If I see someone as anything but longterm material, I'll let her know cuz I don't believe in wasting a woman's time. I've gone out with this 1 woman for 5 or 6 years and she knew from the start but, secretly thought she'd be able to interest me into a long term relationship again. That wasn't to be... I'm against getting married again but, not against living with a girl again... lol. 😁😎
I know this is wrong but in the past I treated relationships like jobs. Keep one until a better one comes along. Had monogamous relationships with women who either had a promiscuous past or could not handle money. I knew it wasn't going to be permanent but I enjoyed their company albeit for just a few months.
Yes I am currently in one. There are multiple reasons for it. For a man it is enticing to be able to sleep with different women every day but it gets old. New is not always better. So I am currently with a girl that I enjoy having sex with and enjoy spending time with. I will be with her until June. Then my work contract will end and I will go to my home country. It's also helps in terms of STD prevention.
You told her?
Yeah. She understands that I will leave in June. She knew when I first hooked up with her. According to her, she's not looking for anything serious so she's comfortable and happy with this arrangement
I guess it's okay then
Even though the arrangement is agreed upon, I think a true man of principle would not be taking pleasure in a woman he takes no responsibility for. That's my view.
@BrianMerritt you are absolutely right... I wish i would met a guy like you and not the bastard i dealt with.. continue like this please
Im honest if its not going well Ill tell them. I dont want to hurt them but at same time neverwant to string someone along.I dont know why women do it often. I have not found a decent relationship.It doesn't mean they aren't out there. Just for me had bas luck.
I'm a woman. My biological clock is ticking. I don't have time to waste on one guy who is not Mr. Right.
Well, i HOPED that we might have a future together, but due to the fact that it was a ldr I didn't really believed in that happening. And yes, we broke up two years later.
Once. We sort of fell into it, and while it wasn't likely to last it was pleasant at the time.
Maybe if the other person cares enough you need to be there in a relationship if you know its gonna work out or not. Sometimes its just to check every option. I hope I don't sound like a s**t
I did once because I thought the other person shared my point of view. Only to discover quite far into the relationship (and nearing my assumed expiration date) that they didn't
I had to when I was younger to get sex, yea. That changed as I became older and more options starting showing up
Yes, once - I was severely bipolar and hurt many people unknowingly when I was younger, people I was friends with and my ex years ago. Never again.
I am in a relationship with someone, and I don't really see a future with her, I already discussed this with her because she is my friend before my girlfriend, and she's ok with the fact that we will break up in the future. And also, our relationship is not polygamous nor based on sex.
I'm fairly old fashioned, and would only date someone if I see a future with them, ergo, starting a family.
I'm not even going to start a relationship with a girl if I know it will never lead anywhere. It's cruel
I have no intention of ever being in a monogamous relationship; they're perilous in the extreme.
I love a monogamous but only if i see any future with them until then i don't even take it further to a relationship.
There is no future anyway but relationship is now. Enjoy the moment!
I don't see a point in starting it if even I don't believe it will last
Naw, everybody I tried to date I saw a future with to my demise..
I don't do that. If l can't see a future then there is no meaning to be together.
I did... but I was young and just wanted a relationship because I felt pressured to have one.
yes because everybody else had a girlfriend and i wanted one too
I don’t like to share my man.
That wasn't the question. It was if you have dated someone with no intention of being with them for the long run. So a relationship that isn't serious but you're exclusive for the time being. Have you ever done that?
Yes because I don’t like to share my man.
That doesn't make sense for the question but okay.
I just answered it. “So a relationship that isn't serious but you're exclusive for the time being. Have you ever done that?”Yes , eventhough it’s not serious , we are serious for the time being. I don’t like to share my man. Serious or not.
I wasn't asking if you're monogamous though. The monogamous part is a given. It's part of the question to exclude open relationships. It was for people who dont share. I was only asking if you have ever been in a relationship with someone even though you don't see them in your future but you have recently answered that with your last comment.
I think what she means is that she doesn't like to share her man
@Fran1981 I said it 3 times.
And it still had nothing to do with my question... lmao
I voted yes and gave you the reason. Yes because I don’t like to share my man ! That’s why.
I didn't know what you voted. It doesn't tell me who votes what. All you said was "I don't like to share my man."My questions were never if it was monogamous. Obviously if it's a monogamous relationship the point is to not share.The questions were If you've been in a serious relationship with someone you don't want a future with? You answered; yes. Second question, Why would you be in a relationship with someone you don't see a future with, instead of finding someone you do want a future with? I'm guessing that was why you said you don't like to share your man. Which didn't answer the question I was seeking. (If someone else seems to get confused I'll reword it.) Last question was, does that person know the relationship is going no where or do you let them believe what ever they want?
why do guys do anything or interact with women at all? for sex
There would be no reason to do that.
Yes. So I can sleep with them.
Nope, I prefer to not waste my time.
No. What a waste of time.
Why would someone do that?
I said the same thing, haha. For sex, I suppose.
@BrianMerritt Ya, people will do the most selfless things for things like sex and money. Some people apparently even sell their virginity. Terribly pathetic.
No I haven't.
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