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there are many kinds of weird, so it all depends. I tend to steer away from norms a bit due to being a metalhead, and people have called me weird. but there have been plenty of times where I can't keep the guys off of me. so really it all depends on what kind of weirdness
What kind of weirdness are you talking about? Define yourself.
Dancing in the moonlight around a bonfire naked 😂 I kidLittle things like - looking up at the sky at night from your window to determine whether the next day will be good. - reading books in odd positions like upside down on your bed or sofa- deconstruct food and eat them in sections ( like burgers)
Hahahahahahah dancing naked around the bonfire would be a bit weird, unless you're looking for a nudist. 😂😂 But dancing around a bonfire with her in my arms wouldn't be weird at all. And as for the rest of the three things are concerned, apart from the first one I sometimes do the other two. Fuck!! I didn't know that was weird. 😂😂 so, those aren't weird things. And yes, I would love to date a woman who does those things, but other things would also matter.
A little is to me yes, as long as you can still act normal and get on fine in society, but i like a few quirks.. keeps things interesting.
I’ve never met a normal person. I mean what is the normative default personality? And who would want to stay that way. No one plays a video game with character customization and tries to make the most basic character ever and if they did that in itself would be wired. Weird vs normal is all about perception. A tie would probably look weird to the ancient Greeks just like obsessing over the physical prowess of others while eating yourself into diabetes once a week because it’s masculine is weird to me. The fact that girls rub minerals into their facial pores to cover up acne is paradoxical but somehow often considered normal. People are weird. All of them.
I depends. Everyone is slightly weird and has quirks, it is just a matter of finding someone who meshes with them and accepts them. There are, however, some quirks with are typically viewed as desirable (eg. loving to explore new things [especially sexually]), some typically viewed as undesirable (eg. cucks), and some almost always viewed as undesirable (eg. pedophilia, abusive).
It's just depends on the person. People can be attractive to all kind of weirdness. Just do you and don't worry about what other say about your weirdness. Your weirdness is what makes you and somebody will find that attractive. Don't conform to society and be fake.
I knew there were a lot of aspects that made me "conventionally weird." And for while, all I cared about was what other people thought of me. You could be the WEIRDEST person on the planet, and not give a fuck about it, and I'm telling you, people will respect you for that. As soon as I stopped caring, all my weird tendencies suddenly became "cool."
In men who are otherwise successful, yes. Think quirky physics professor who loves his research.The average person? Hell no. I've also never had any positive experiences with women who call themselves "weird"
Why? Im curious to know~
Girls who openly call themselves "weird" tend to have underlying mental issues - at least in my experience. And I don't need to be dating women with mental issues lol
Yes. Depends on how serious the person is if they like weirdness. Everyone I know is weird in some way or another. My husband thinks my weirdness is cute and he'll be weird with me.
So long as they accept you for who you are thats what matters , in that sense.
years ago I had a friend that had that picture as her background on her phone XD
That's a good friend then uhu
Depends on what it is that is weird. If you're an adult into cosplay, that might be weird to a lot of people but endearing to others. On the other hand, if you save your feces in jars, you are unlikely to find someone who appreciates that quirk.
That's oddly specific xD had any experiences with someone saving their food baby miscarriages in a jar?
@virginbish Supposedly the late billionaire Howard Hughes, in his later years, saved his fingernail clippings and other bodily waste.
Aww man thats gross...
Yeah that's why he dated Hollywood starlets in his younger years, but, uh, not so much in his last years.
It depends on how and what kind of weird. If it's snorting Cheetos through your eye sockets then no it's not attractive.
I love how specific some people are being with he weird habits and where the line is crossed 😂😂 wanna have a brain storming session of all the weird stuff that cross the line? Crying into a tea pot every night to make their cup of tea in the morning. Your turn :3
Still writing to Santa at 23. Or waiting for that letter from Hogwarts instead of going to that board meeting
Believing in all the superstitous things in world and having all these charms and things to ward off the spirits in the car, bathroom, entire house, and constantly gives u crap and expects you to wear them. And I mean piles and piles of things
That was very specific lol but I understand your point.
Not really. However, my boyfriend is very weird. It’s ok to be a cool weird like everyone knows you weird. It’s not ok to be a scary weird. Like that kids gonna shoot us all weird.
You make a valid point, thank you.
Weird is subjective, so it can go either way. Usually a bizarre laugh or quirkiness shuts one off, while another's ears may perk up. Unfortunately, there's no one-size-fits-all formula, just like life!
No. You're not that special. You're really just like everybody else. But I know, you think you're a special snowflake. :)
You really need to come up with a new word, snowflake this! Snowflake that! Get with the times, society is changing. Everyone is weird in their own way, I get called weird every day
Its a question that could be related to everyone not just myself alone.
@ryanlightning You just think it is. The more things change the more they stay the same. Weirdos are not that attractive. Red colored hair is not attractive, neither is short hair. Everybody wants to know how they can be popular, well liked. This isn't it. [shrug]
You do realise a lot of people don't care about being popular right? Also your sentance doesn't make sense plus it's wrong, so much has changed but you know what they say, old people are set in their ways
@ryanlightning - and young people are too dumb to know better. :)
Is that why it's the young that are being relied upon to make changes? I wander... could this be because the old are stuck in their ways and don't know how to change... yes, yes it is
What kind of "weird" are you talking about? Sometimes it can be cute, other times it can be annoying.
Weird in terms of personality.
lol everyone says they like the quirky fucks till it gets hardcore weird. so yeah, it depends
Weird, but not too weird, can be attractive. it also depends on the type of weird.
if you are already very high status its cool and hipster and "alternative". if not noone likes you except other weirdos. lol.
It can be, but weirdness for the sake of weirdness is as transparent as trying to blend in. It looks contrived & immature if you do it just to do it.
It really depends, like if someone had a unique way of doing things then cool, but if a person, dresses in as anime character everyday, then I'll be thrived off by it. Its just my preference
Depends on the weirdness.At the very least it's attractive in the sense that it attracts our attention.
It's never attractive. Sometimes it's cute and fun though. there is something to be said for entertainment value.
It's a matter of opinion, some guys want the normal girls, into pretty dresses looking for and and sportscars, others will prefer the different.
What one person thinks is weird another may consider normal.
depends on the type of weirdness and how much weirdness.
It depends on how good the sex is, the better the sex the more most men will put up with.
It’s gotta be the right kinda weirdness that vibes with my weirdness.
Depending on a lot different things
It really depends on how you are weird and the other person.
only if it is healthy
Then what would be considered as an healthy dose of weird?
being themselves and standing out, without getting arrested?
Too many shades of weird...
Yes and I totally agree. It can range from a couple of oddly amusing quirks to boardline mental.
after my last 2 exes I'm never getting with a weird girl again
Might be but only for small period of time.
Because it could be exhausting?
Weirdness in looks or character?
I'm talking about personality.
do you have any example?
Hmm... like Deconstructing a burger and each part separately. Or into something like cosplay
i think as long as it didn't require me in any way, i'd be okay with it
Lol, Fair enough
Let me guess. You're weird and look for approval
Its just a question, mate.
Most the time yes makes stuff interesting
Depends on the type of weird.
It's not attractive
It depends on lot of factors. Too many...
I'm weird. I get lots of attention.
Not really guess it depends on the kind weirdness
It can be, yes.
Not at all
You've piqued my curiosity.How so?
Be yourself. If that's being weird and someone is attracted to it by all means. I'm all about laughing and having fun.
I am so backwards. I should not have said "not at all". Weirdness most certainly can be!
Interestingly enough, a friend of mine said that 'being yourself' is worst advice you can give to someone. As if it were really true, everyone would be all over the place like mental patients.What do you think?
I think "that" is bad advice. Why would you want someone around who is not attracted to you for you? That would cause you to be different for the sake of someone else. Then you are not fulfilled as an individual and not having your needs met.
No its just weird
No it really isn't..
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