I dated this great amazing wonderful guy for a few weeks, we kinda had a on & off thing. We are broken up now for good because "I don't want anything anymore", his words, the first time I convinced him it's okay and I'll help you and stuff so he opened up & got back together, but a week later he does the same. Now we're just broken up for a month. I want him back, because he's amazing and sweet. But on the other hand he spent let me be there for him, he pushes me away so hard while saying mean things and I can't be there for him if he's not gonna be there for me. It takes two to tango. Yet I can't stop thinking about him (unlike with other exes ) should I let him go or reach out like, a month from now. He's been depressed for a few years alreadg and I want to be there for him. Even just as friend, but I have to think about myself too.. what to do?