So there's this guy I met online a few months ago and we connected pretty well. He's good looking and we share a lot of the same interests. But he lives in Korea (His English is very good.) We're both still in school and he says he's coming to the UK in 3 years. We're not dating but we flirt a lot. The thing is, he says that if we're going to date after those 3 years then he wants me to stay "pure". Which he means he wants me to stay a virgin. Now, I'm not even close to having a boyfriend but still. He said he'll stay pure if I will. But the thing is, what if I wait 3 years without losing my virginity and it turns out it was all for nothing? I asked him if he'd still want me if I wasn't a virgin and he said maybe but he wants to be with only one person his whole life. If that's true then damn, he's committed. But we're not actually dating and i don't know what to do.