Why the double standard?
Why is it okay for a guy to be the “sideho” yet it’s bad for girls to be one?
Why the double standard?
What Guys Said 25
Interesting double standard indeed. I personally think that any girl or guy for that matter shouldn't be cheating anyway. Very different from consensual 3ways though. At the same time, unless there are official titles and the two in question confirm to each other that they will be mutually exclusive, being a "sideho" shouldn't be gender exclusive.1
Basically societal hipocracy. Essentially the same reason why a guy sleeping with a bunch of girls is more acceptable to society. Personally I think anyone who would allow themselves to be the object of cheating is almost as bad as the lowlife who cheats in the first place.1
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It's not a double standard silly, you're just not paying attention to what actually is going on in this situation.
--A guy is bragging about seducing a girl who's committed to another guy,
--a girl who seduced a committed man is being shat on.
The double standard you're claiming does not exist in the story you told.
GTFO with your gender politics.0
There honestly shouldn't be a double standard. In my opinion, girl or guy, the one who cheated is at fault. The only time the side can be blamed is if they knew the person was in a relationship and went along with it anyway.1
You can not cheat unless you're married because cheating is terms only within a marriage. Any relationship outside of marriage is not legit and henceforth you are not obligated to stay faithful to anybody else. Fornicating with somebody you trust is not better than fornicating with something you don't trust.0
It's the cheater's fault, not the person he cheated with. Always. Cheaters are the scum of Earth.2
I think in the realm of cheating whether you were side ho husband or wife it us just a rotten hurtful thing to do. If you have been in love with someone and they cheated on you, you know the emotional pain it can cause. It's debilitating for some people. Everyone knows who the real problem is. The side ho becomes the excuse to help you heal. The cheater is still the problem though, and the hurt takes a long time to go away.0
Thats because of the way society has been bred with things like "girls should stay virgin un til marriage" and such, simply put, local tradition2
actually if you are a sidepiece it doesn't matter if you are male or female you are a lame ass bitch and you need to get some goddamned respect for yourself (sassy snapping+head tilt)1
It's called double standards.. Set up by men !!!1
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What Girls Said 4
It’s not that there is some double standard. It’s the fact that women often blame the other woman instead of their asshole boyfriend out of denial !
When a girl cheats he knows it’s on her rather than just the dude !
If your partner is planing to cheat they are going to do it with the first person that is attractive to them and willing to do it. If it’s not with person 1 it may be with person 2 or 31
I have her to meet a guy who would boast about sleeping with somebody else’s girlfriend.0
Because they know women will still proudly date them regardless of their bad behavior. I don't know why most women haven't figured out why these kinds of double standards still exist.0
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