Most Helpful Guy
I prefer confidence, assertion and a decent amount of empathy. I don't really associate it with 'good girl' or 'bad girl'. Honestly I think that whole notion is silly.
Most Helpful Girl
The concept of bad and good is kind of stupid. As adults we prefer partners who are confident in their autonomy and have other characteristics that define them such as wit , humor , intelligence , etc. Anyone who defines them selves as solely being good or bad is probably 1 dimensional.