Is it normal to get extremely jealous if my boyfriend mentions an ex?
What Guys Said 23
An ex of mine used to question me about my exes out of nowhere, then when I answered her she'd get really jealous lol smh
Like tf? You ASKED. I never brought them up otherwise though, mainly cause they weren't on my mind. But if a thought about them passed through I didn't voice it because it has no place in my new relationship.
You have memories and life experiences, they may come back to you now and then randomly, but you don't need to bring the past into your present. Just let the thought pass through and move on.
If he's talking about them too much then you have every right to feel jealous.0
yes, to an extent. if your reaction is totally disproportionate to the context in which the topic of his ex came up is conversation then no. just let him know how him mentioning his ex makes you feel insecure so that he's aware of how it impacts you.0
I became very jealous too in the First month of the relationship because i was Not Sure what is going on There. (she stayed Friends with him and they Textes sometimes, and i never Met him at this time)
Later i Met him in her Birthday, saw that He is OK and now i am Not becoming jealous anymore
I think yess1
Yes. Women can really go nuts about it. All of them. Even if you are in a pre dating phase. Boys, never mention an ex! But if you want to get rid of a girl you don’t like, just talk about you exes constantly. She will hate you.0
If he is constantly bringing up exes then yes that's very disrespectful , but if it's once in awhile then I wouldn't let it bother you, I dealt with the same shit , and if it keeps continuing I would love on and find someone that respects you0
Yes, he could be doing it to make you jealous. . Not fair to you, if he is doing that to you.0
Depends of the intentions.0
What kind of things does he say about them?0
Its not out of the ordinary I don't think. In saying that it depends on your reaction... A frown or shitty look that's ok. A knife in the ribs may be a little far tho 😁0
If he speaks good of her on repeat, you should have a word with him0
Insecure people will say yes and people who've done the work on themselves will say no... either way its something to work toward eliminating its unhealthy for you and any relationship you may have 😉0
Not extremely jealous...
Not at 31 ...
Maybe at 15 - 21 yes...0
Yeah that's weird0
I wish I could answer that but I've never had a decent relationship.0
Mention yes, rants or provides explicit details no, he's asking for a asskicking at that point and insecure or wants her, you decide.
Jealousy is normal, extreme jealously is hmmm not, it's indicative of
low self esteem (subconscious) and control issues. Like my comment,
don't like it, I don't care, just being 100% real and here to help, enjoy, cheers!0
Jealous, sure it's normal.
Extremely jealous, eh...0
What Girls Said 5
For me, yes
for others... this needs to be a POLL
but of course, I find it A-OK to mention mine... and have been able to skirt the jealousy issue by making it clear all that is dead & gone, they are not invited to our place & will not see/comm with them again0
Only if she's a bitchy slag other than that laugh at her x0
Yeah it's normal0
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