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No. Like it or not, the fact is that sex isn't just physical. And anyone that tries to say otherwise is either lying to you, or to themselves.Probably both.
You have some more to grow with that statement.You have a lot of different psychological and neurological that divides from the so called normal/stereotypical mind brain that can no matter gender.(sociopath psychopath narcissist for example)
In fairness, the lady phrased the question so it implied a person who falls within the range of normal behavioural psychological and physiological boundaries.Obviously someone with a personality disorder, schizophrenia or serious mental illness will fall into the end zones of the bell curve (1st to 5th and 95th to 100th percentile)The rest are either lying to her, themselves or both.
Oooh thanks I didn't see it in that way until now
Yes!Manny can.It depends on how he's mental state is.1. you can be a rebound from something emotional to move on.2. the person can have a insecure avoiding relationship frame.3. try to fill a void.4. mental illnes.5. sex addict.6. just horny and you happen to be a great subject for that.7. the person already has feelings for someone els that it haven't been anything with yet and you becomes a substitute for the time being.and so on...Anyway that's hard to say on forehand with that little to go on.
You look like my college crush.Lucky ass 20 year old.Yes a guy can, but we're vulnerable to catching feelings like women are. It might not happen as much through sex but, it happens.
How can I tell if he has feelings for me? I mean the guy is 20 I know he is a child... But I kinda like him... So I don't want to risk me... And we spend so many time together we live together like "friends" but we sleep together... But he is jealous of guys who talk to me... And he is going out with other girl. I am really lost right now
The reason there is ambiguity about whether he likes you, the reason why he's going out with another woman, is probably because she gives him the respect he wants in the form of being called a man. He's 20, he is Not a child. I like older women a lot, but nothing is more annoying than when they treat you like some wet behind the ears whippersnapper whose only just setting out in the world. You need to process the thought of him with the dignity he wants from you, & the more you treat him like a child the more pushed away he will be & feel.
You are totally right!! Thanks... Sometimes I treat him like a child but is unconscious
If you care about him, you need to make an effort to reverse that treatment. He will notice that if you do, & it will make him care more about you for doing it.
Are you sure about that? I mean I feel he never figure what I do
You only ever know if you try.
Yes... I will thanks!! But if it doesn't work? What I have to do?
You can't tell how it's going to turn out before it happens. I'm not familiar with how your relationship dynamic is now, or how you might change this by putting in this effort. If it fails, at least you tried doing something for someone you care about.
Yes. People can even have sex be real emotional. Then turn it off at will. Good way ro connect without out pain. But then when that right person comes along you got no choice
Yes. Think about how often guys find hookers. No love, just sex. I'm not saying you are one! Look how often guys want friends with benefits. No love, just sex.
Personally i can't but im old fashioned and have a strict moral code i live by.
For us, sex is mostly physical. Sometimes there's emotion behind it, but we have the capacity to just screw anything and leave at a moment's notice
OK I get it... But we live together and sleep together since two months ago... He said we are friends with benefits but he is jealous of guys who talk to me... But he is going out with other girl... So I don't know what to think
Guys can absolutely have sex with feeling any thing.
For how long?
Depends on the guy, whether or not his emotional needs are being met elsewhere, and how good the sex is for him.
He is really happy with the sex
That's a known fact.Of course, if thy were already kinda friends, sentiments may jump in.
And how can I tell that?
Hindsight will tell. Hindsight is usually rather good.
After the ONS you'll know if he comes back and stays or if he only wants a friends with benefits relationship
What is ONS?
One Night Stand
OK so if it is more than one day he had feelings?
Up to you to judge him: I don't know the guy
depends on the person actually, some can, and some can't
Can you tell me how much time can you do that without feel anything? I mean he lives with me and we sleep together... And he is jealous sometimes of other guys... But he is going out with other girl. I really don't know what to think
i can never do that, because i only sleep with a woman, if i truly love and and in a committed relationship with her.that guy sounds like a asshole to me, he's just using you, dump his pathetic ass
I think he is right? Well the sex is great but it doesn't worth it
if you are ok having just sex with him, then its good.otherwise if you think he loves you, then you are wrong, he doesn't loves you
Guys and girls can have sex with anyone without any feeling being involved... it's the "usage " what they are looking for and pure pleasure physically
Anyone can have sex with someone else without feeling anything.
How many times?
However many times it happens. I lost my virginity to a girl who didn't feel anything.If you don't feel like he loves you and that's what you want, the worst thing you can do is keep having sex with him. Change it or find someone else.
That is disgusting for me, If I can't feel nothing about girl even I can't Kiss.
Yeah, plenty of guys can have sex without getting attached.
Thats not true some guys care for others more them life
He is 20 I guess at that age you just can't stop yourself from exploring your options.
Yes, and it can go the other way, too.
Some can, others can't. I can't.
Sure. When I was single I did it all the time.
Yes guys can just have sex with out feelings
Yes people can have sex without any feelings
Forever if it's not the right person who can make them in love
It should be visible in his actions
Can you explain this to me. Please?
If you don't feel the electricity and passion from the start it's always going to be about him that as far as I'm concerned and more each other gets excitement from one another the file the flames. Still run high
You already had sex?
Yes... Too much... Because we live together :(
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