If you loved to dress all black, would you be more attracted or feel more sympathy for a person (potential partner) who is also dressed all black? Or if you preferred to dress some kinda hipster, would you prefer that too on someone else? Spoken in general, do you feel more sympathy/connection or attraction for someone who has the same or a similar style like you?
Would you feel more attracted/connected to someone who shares your style?
What Guys Said 33
I stick to vintage styles and retro clothing (victorian era, 1950's, 1960's etc) so I am mostly attracted to girls that dress that way (very rare though because most girls I've seen dress relaxed these days). I also have a special place in my heart for punk rock/metal girls because I grew up in that scene.3
Well, I'm a very relaxed guy so when it comes to interacting with people, I would prefer to be in company of somebody who doesn't talk 24/7. So yes, I personally prefer people that are similar to me, because I like the way I act (usually) so I'd also like to be around those kinds of people.0
I have more of an attraction to girls with certain styles yes, but none of those styles mirror my own.0
I wear a lot of black and yes simular style \interests do help.. it depends on how much your willing to accept the person's different tastes really2
My 30 year old girlfriend and I are total opposites the way we dress but it works for us0
No. The style of a person has to fit together with her/his character and look. 90% of the things I have to wear is black. If I see what my girlfriend can offer to wear it's like a rainbow and that's fine. Everybody has his/hers own style and I couldn't care less if it's the same as mine.0
It's somethimg to talk about and that's the connection. Talking is the connection not nessarly the subject.0
Yep, definitely, my style is casual and i prefer someone whose style was also casual, i don´t like tryhards too much, only if it is in the sense of internal cultivation, because i am also a tryhard in this sense.0
I would actually stay the heck away from any girl who dresses, behaves, or has similar beliefs as I do. I won't be comfortable dating someone who is like me even in terms of style.0
Nope. I mean dress how you feel comfortable and they will dress how they feel comfortable... if the interest is there the look shouldn't matter... if it does... then maybe the relationship is too immature...0
For me as a biker and in a comunity where we have some rather interesting outfits I would prefer a lady simalarly dressed as this would also lead to more understanding and or sympathy when its very hot out or wet outside they would understand the ups and downs of not just our "fasion" but our lifestyle0
Honestly? Hell yeah!0
Hmm that’s an interesting question, I feel that it could do but maybe having too many similarities would cause you to crash? I feel that if you like them you like them whether you are completely opposite or similar1
I am, yes.0
Not really. It wouldn't be very interesting0
No my sense of style is shit lol0
I don't mind either way0
I would date someone who just wears whatever they want. Clothes are clothes.0
We would rock it together!0
Nope, doesn't work like that0
Yea man, i would lol0
Ten years ago when I did all black in high school I always went for the preppy girls0
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What Girls Said 20
Interesting question a girl who had similar taste in clothes or things to me would make me interested to get to know them better and see if we’re similar in other ways, but it doesn’t make me feel a connection or more sympathy at all with them more than I would with anyone else, with a guy I’d rather there dress sense was nothing like mine as I dress pretty feminine so no lol.1
Hard question, I have so many style that it's hard to respond XD
For men I like the sporty / casual style which is also my style on some days. On others days I like to dress feminine (dress, skirt, heels) which don't match any guy style really.1
Not necessarily. I actually find many styles attractive other than my own. I think I could still be attracted to/have a connection with someone who has a different style, as long as we got along well otherwise and have other things in common.0
The guy I'm involved with doesn't have the exact same clothing style as me. I guess his dress sense did draw me as it was intriguing and visually appealing.
The only similarity I'd say is the fact that we use mainstream trends as our base, wear bold colours (at least one item), and dress sense is somewhat inspired by anime.
The difference is that my style is a mixture of the cute look, boho chic, vintage, dressy and grunge. His style is more casual and hip hop.0
Yes. I like individuality in style, but still in a stylish manner. I like this in a partner too.1
I never thought of that0
I don't care about style. I want an attractive guy who dresses in a predictable and conservative way and I would prefer that he dresses the same way every day. I don't like it when attractive people are constantly changing their style.0
I would feel connected a bit on some level, but I would not be more attracted necessarily.0
I've never really met a guy with my style so YES. I like stuff that's a little outside the box and it's honestly just kind of hard to find.0
i am not 16 anymore. So no. Not at all.0
Nope. Don't pay it that much attention as long as he looks good in them.0
I do not care about style therefore it won't make any difference.0
Typical I go for the emo/alternative style guys. But my boyfriend is the complete opposite... like he sags his pants and wears like thug sorta shit (idk how to explain)0
it doesn't matter to me, as long as we care about each other. If you narrow your relationship down to what clothes you wear, isn't that a little shallow?0
Yaas my man shares my style0
It's not a deal breaker, but yes! Sometimes I dress generally like a female version of Milo from that Disney Atlantis movie, and other times I like to wear bohemian-styles with rich colors, paisley and florals. Sounds odd for a guy to incorporate any of these and look sane, but I've seen it done right quite a few times before (on straight guys, too) and it looks cute.
But it doesn't even have to be that specific theme/look, I just love when guys dress creatively.1
Yes I would be more attracted to them but more then likely I wouldn't have connection with them. I think it's very superficial to like someone based on how they dress and I like all different styles but I'm kinda in with the hipster scene and hipster guys I've came across are usually total douche bags.
My crush dresses very basic and nerdy e. g. hoodies and sci-fi t -shirts but he's a little bit gothic which is definitely not my scene at all but I like him for his mind and personality not for something so meaningless like style and this is coming from someone who studied fashion0
Definitely more connected, but not necessarily more attracted to0
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