He comes whenever we hang out, he drives an hour to see me. Like I don't want a guy to waste his time to come see me, he pays for my meals, comes up to the doors... I feel like he's doing all the work.. and I am honestly not worth all this trouble.. he was driving home one week from taking me out and he ended up in the ditch... I felt horrible.. I met his mom and I found out all the trouble he has to come get me.. UGH. Maybe he needs to find someone who lives closer to him.. How can I tell him?