Is it normal to feel like you're second best? Seeing old posts of him saying the shit every woman wants to hear from their man to and about her on social media or off but has never done the same for me.. Should I feel as if he doesn't love me as much as he did her? He says he's not the same person anymore he doesn't post anything like that now. Which hurts more. Because we now have a child on the way ourselves. He already has a son with her.. And he doesn't post anything about me or the baby in a sweet way like he did with his first. Should I be feeling like we are second best to him when it comes to her their son and him?