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What do you mean you can't show your feelings? Like can you give an example of an interaction?
like i cannot open myself. and everytime a pretty decent option comes along i shut myself of thinking that no one would ever love me
Maybe you need to figure out what your "shell" is. Look introspectively, and see where you're sensitive, and try to steer conversations away from those topics and onto something you enjoy. Hobbies, past times, sports, art, music, movie, etc. What's your passion?Maybe see if having someone open up to you will have the same affect on you. Ask questions, be (or at least act) interested in what the guy has to say. See if the two of you can find common ground.Another approach is to just talk to people. Talk to guys with no end game in mind and see if you vibe together. If not, you could have a good friend. have more conversations and meet as many people as you can. Once you find yourself having more conversations, you'll be able to find yourself opening up to more people and not just guys you're interested in.Does that help?
You do you feel numb or do you find it hard to express your emotions?
i find ir even hard to smile for a person i like, like im trying my hardest to shut my feelings and look as cold as i can.
Why? If i may ask
because i feel like showing feelings and beeing vunerable is weakness
Oh my. Well don't worry I been there and done that. All your doing is self destructing. When I did that I became cold and numb, I rarely cried and didn't repesct the feelings of others. My time was spent on my own and ultimately because I pushed everyone away. I did through truma as a child and now I have ended up with a mental health condition because I had a mental breakdown due to doing what you are currently doing. I suggest talking to a shrink. Otherwise you will end up alone with no one caring if you live or die. Your doing it to yourself and at the end off the day you can either listen to me or get help. That choice is yours.
My last crush was like that, she could talk all day about herself, but never had any emotion. I kept trying to get her to open up, but she hasn't
I mean.. if you know you are doing it then the only thing to say is just stop doing it?
Just don't change yourself be yourself... U will find one
Give some care. If you're like that you should get checked yourself for being a "sociopath"
what does it mean?
If you figure that out let me know please.
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