- Yes, I'm currently dealing with it.
- Yes, though I got over it.
- No, I never have.
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Yes, there is a girl who is my TA, classmate, colleague, mentor, and best female friend. I spend a LOT of time with her (easily 20+ hrs/wk), and I have developed incredibly strong romantic feelings for her (like tenfold stronger than any feelings I’ve had for other girls).
She already has a boyfriend, and we are just in different places in life. I’m about to graduate from college in a few months, and she’s about to get her PhD by the end of the year. And we are from entirely different backgrounds. I’m American and she’s from Beijing, China.
I want soooo badly to tell her how breathtakingly beautiful she is to me, but I know it would be all for naught, so I just hide my feelings around her. I hate every second of it. At times, I wish I never met her, so I wouldn’t know this emotional torment.4