My question is somewhat typical, I talk to a lot of guys on text and they seem to be interested in me,. most of them, when I talk to them I feel no spark at all, sometimes they try to carry on the conversation with me and I do try to get into them, but something deep inside me doesn't want to, I don't know why. I like this one guy but he's a lost cause, he's a good looking man and many girls are after him and I know there is no chance for him and me (as he will be tempted to be unfaithful). So my question goes as follows, why do I pass up chances with guys to go on dates? and why do I feel no spark with some of them?
Also I don't want to be in a relationship anymore, it is a lot of drama with a guy and so much to deal with that its depressing to even think about!
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I can't tell you who to date and who to be attracted to (you're either attracted or not) but it sounds strange to me that you only want this one guy. I mean, there are so many good guys out there and you only want one that you admit will probably give you trouble?
Maybe you like the drama, or maybe you think you can just grab Mr. Popular and make him into your pretty little husband or something? I dunno, your whole post just sounds to me like you only want one guy but have already given up on him, so you say the hell with it.0