How did you meet? 🤔?

To me it’s kinda important that I can find a boyfriend and have a story to tell. Not just the “how did you meet?” “On tinder” *end of conversation * I love listening to the stories of how people got together and when they realised that there was more -also I really want to be able to say that I married one of my best friends 😊 is that weird, or just old fashioned? 🤔


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  • It sure is nice to have a story behind how you met your partner. However, in the end it is not really important. How good the relationship is and how good the bond is: having found the right one so to speak is the most important... A thousand nice stories to tell will eventually come after a while. That is the base and what you describe easily comes along then.

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  • I met my boyfriend of almost 2 years in color guard at school. Color guard is sort of like a club for JROTC (a class) and we are the ones who go to schools and ceremonies with the US flag, state flag, and 2 dummy rifles. I was learning how to be a flag but i sprained my wrist a few weeks before so i couldnt actually practice anything, he was training to be a rifleman. It took me a week to learn his name and then another 2 to say it out loud and finally talk to him, he was really cute and nice. We talked for a couple months but i was really shy and just a freshman while he was a sophomore. I was REALLY shy though, like i didn't talk to anyone in middle school or elementary so high school was so new i was completely silent most of the day. Anyway, as time passed we became best friends and we talked constantly about a lot of different things and we told each other we loved each other but we both knew it was more than just friend love. We flirted with each other and we talked about our days and we talked about our family. As time wore on a few dramatic things happened that made me believe he just wanted to be friends and i dated a different guy and had a few other crushes even though i was in love with him. I quickly ended the other relationships once i realized that of course though. When the school year was almost over then all the drama was gone, is was early may, and we were still best friends, and we told each other how we felt. I told him i couldnt date him bc of family things (i went more into depth with him) but he just kept persisting with little things like spinning me as if we were dancing in a specific place in a specific hallway (almost exactly where we first met i am realizing), kissing my forehead and hands, he would walk me home daily and we would talk for hours and hours (i like kinda far from school), one day he came over in the morning and took me on a walk to the park which i had never done with ANYONE before and we hung out all day then he came over to my house and we watched movies (unromantic ones i'll say it) and he kissed me on the corner of my mouth, just missing my lips, and so i kissed him, our first kiss. Then i said something corny like "we should probably date now then huh?" and he got down on one knee (it's a little funny now) and asked me to be his girlfriend, i said yes and we've been dating ever since. We really love each other, this is a story i like to tell, and i also hope to marry my best friend one day. <3

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What Guys Said 8

  • I always thought that stories for how partners meet were just for movies, but my story is actually pretty cool in my opinion

    So I was really close friends with the girl's brother for a long while, so I'd met her before, but I don't think I'd held a conversation with her for longer than two minutes. Me and my friend got kind of distant but were still on good terms and he invited me and my other friend to a party. He was kind of busy with everyone at the party since he was the host so he wasn't with us very much. So me and my friend stood off to the side of the party because 1) we don't like parties all that much and 2) we didn't know anyone besides each other and the host. We were bored so we starting talking about girls like boys do and we decided to look at all the girls at the party and decide who was most attractive. It wasn't weird or anything just trying to decide on who was most attractive. I decided on Hannah (her name). My friend agreed and I happened to text another friend who wasn't at the party that I thought Hannah was cute.
    I didn't know that the person I texted even knew who Hannah was. Turns out, it was one of her best friends and Hannah went and saw her later that day. Anyways, they got bored and stole each other's phones (at least that's what they said in all actuality my friend probably showed Hannah) but I got a text from my friend's phone that simply said "Thanks - Hannah". Somehow we began a conversation out of that. We talked for about fifteen minutes and then I asked for her number since this was probably the only chance we were going to be able to talk unless she gave me her number or I gave her mine. And we did trade numbers. Something neither of us would've done after barely knowing someone, but there was a connection we could both feel (but were definitely not ready to admit yet). We talked until 1:00 in the morning that night.
    All that happened in seventh grade and we're happily married now after all those years.

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  • met at a party, we were strangers, we turned into a one night stand, the next day i said "i want to hang out and get to know you", today we have been dating for 3 months

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  • Neither, to be honest. It's not weird to want an interesting story to tell but honestly it's not "old fashioned" either - for most of human history marriages were just arrangements.

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  • Everybody wants that it's just unrealistic in the year 2018

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  • On here we talked about giving a blowjob on a motorcycle 😂

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  • As a normal person meet in a normal life.

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  • POF. com

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  • It's childish. It isn't weird. It isn't old fashioned. It is childish.

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    • You say that like it's a bad thing. Children have fun, have great imaginations, and most aren't jaded by life yet and see a world of possibilities. So if we can grow up and take on the positive things about being an adult without losing those positive childish ways of thinking, then that's a making of a great life. There's no fun in being a serious adult 24/7. When I think of an adult like that I think of serious, unhappy, closed off, stick up your a$$, no fun, grumpy, prudish, unloving person. No thank you. You only get one life so don't waste it thinking you have to lose all of your childish ways.

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    • @_hydra-. I think you are awesome and I'm thankful for people like you in this world. It helps when we have to deal with the negitive people that we can only hope will open their hearts to experience the happiness we have.

    • Thanks pinkmichae ❤️

What Girls Said 16

  • Marrying your best friend is important. Sex will fade and eventually you are stuck with their personality. 😂

    Having a story is nice. Strangers don’t appreciate our story as much as people who know us do. So my husband and i bring up our story to eachother to make us feel giddy and relive moments.

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  • I met my so on pig. We both just got out of long term heart breaking relationships so we both only wanted fun and sex if we clicked like that. He lived an hour from me so he drove to my city and rented a nice hotel. I was new to reno, nv and hadn't had the chance to see the city yet. So we met at the casino. He was so much more handsome In person. So we are, had drinks, walked around the city as he held my hand, and talked about things we had been through. We went up to his room where we continued to talk for hours anout life. He then finally kissed me and we had sex. That's all it was suppose to be but we couldn't deny what was happening between us. Finally after spending 2 weeks together hanging out we admitted we both were falling in love with each other but both scared of getting hurt. But it was a connection neither of us had ever felt so we weren't gonna let it slip away. Within a month of when we met I needed to find a room to rent and he needed a roommate. So I moved in. 6 months later he had to rush me to the hospital because I had appendicitis. I had emergency surgery to have my appendix removed.

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    • *POF not pig. Lol!

      I woke up in my room after and he was the first face I saw when I opened my eyes. I could see how worried he was. He pulled a dolphin ring out of his pocket and slipped it on my right ring finger. It was 2 days before Christmas so i thought it was just a sweet gift. Plus he put it on my right hand, not my left. And he didn't ask me to spend my life with him. Lol! But instead of going home he stayed with me the two days I was in the hospital.

    • He slept in a chair and only left to go to work. I had been through surgery before with my ex but he never stayed with me so it really made me fall more for him knowing he cared so much he didn't want to leave my side at my sickest. I got to go home Christmas eve. We got home and he got me into bed to continue to recover. He got me everything I needed and really took care of me. Then when he was in the kitchen I got a text from him saying the answer to the ring will be his Christmas present. I couldn't believe it. I was like so you want me to spend the rest of my life with You? And he said yes. I smiled and said if course I will. And then I said why did you put it on my right hand? He said because I had iv's on my left. I'm like you should have said something you dork. Lol! Anyway we've been together 3 years this coming April Fools Day. Yes the joke was on us because we didn't want love but April Fools Day! You're in love.💘

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      MHO. Keep spreading the love.💛

  • I met my guy at my best friends 18th. We kept having dance battles and were dancing together. And three months later we were dating.

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  • I was with my best friend. We went to her boyfriends and he had a friend over. We all went swimming. He and I really clicked and we didn’t stop hanging out after that.

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  • It's not weird, but I would say not every story is exciting. I met my boyfriend at college, whoopidoo

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  • I wish I had one so I could tell the whole world how I met them. But for now I'll just say in my dreams, where nothing ever comes true

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  • My fiancé and I met in the weirdest state I was new to the state and town getting over a ex and yet he saw me at a party talked to me but I paid little attention ended up flirting wit his friend that was actually taken by his other best lady friend and even after that he wanted to know me he said it was love at first sight the story doesn't matter the love u share is what matters stories are things u share with others but what u share with another in another is wonderful when it's real a story simple story about a moment can never really describe a lifetime together

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  • I use date guys in college but then I stop dating guys in college. Ask one of my female friends to help me find a new guy and she did help. I and my current boyfriend met on facebook. then met up at the peace centre.

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  • Not to be that girl, but my boyfriend and I did meet on tinder! (Lol) But my story doesn’t end there! I was going through a break up and I decided to flirt around to make myself feel better. Ended up swiping right on my current boyfriend. I slid into his DMs and we had a really good conversation to the point where I asked for his number 😊 we talked for a month or so until we decided to meet up at our community college that we both went to. When I first saw him, I couldn’t believe my eyes! He was so gorgeous. I looked like a train wreck that day. I had three hours of sleep, didn’t do my hair, didn’t wear any make up, and because I was so tired I was SOOOO out of it. I probably resembled a young mom with five kids under the age of 8 who just stayed up all night long because her toddler couldn’t sleep. I swear I screwed it up and that he would never talk to me again. But nevertheless, two months later he asked me out on a date.

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    • This was the greatest date I’ve ever been on. We clicked right away. It was so easy and it just felt like we have known each other our entire lives. Before our date, I had three really bad dates with different guys. So I remember thinking when I was out on that date with my now boyfriend “Wow, first dates are supposed to be fun?”

      I would like to personally thank tinder for connecting us! So happy we both swiped right. Don’t know what I would do without him. He’s my best friend.

  • He wants me, then he doesn’t, then he wants me, then he doesn’t.

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  • I think you are expecting a fairy tale when most of us don’t get it like that.

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  • No, it cute

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  • Good luck with that.

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  • Well mines a long one so could

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  • He was my classmate's boyfriend. Lol

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  • I like stories too. My story failed.

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