Epilepsy and the side effects caused by my medication. I literally can’t get out of the house by myself. (My dad’s too busy with his job and I have no friends for help.)
If there is a goal in mind that she's working at, trying to find work, studying, etc wouldn't bother me. Buy if she sits at home every day looking at YouTube videos , complaining she's bored... Sorry, um can't help you
Attraction is necessary. But a relationship is not merely about looks... Or would you date any girl as long as she's hot? Would you dump her for someone hotter?
@gigi7 No one said it's *only* about looks, it's merely the first thing people notice about each other. And passion is necessary to couples staying happy with each other. Have you never experienced that for yourself, or something? And would I dump her for someone hotter... hmm. Dunno. It would depend on whether we were having problems or not. But really, people should just not assume that most relationships should be monogamous, because monogamy isn't natural, and then it wouldn't be a problem for people to have sex with other people. People would stay happier as a result.
That's your opinion; probably because you've never been in love? I have a boyfriend and he's definitely attractive to me, but his personality is the reason I'm in love with him... I don't feel the need to be with anybody else, or have sex outside our relationship. It is what it is
It depends if she's trying to get one. I mean if she stays at home without foing anything to get a job I guess not but if she's trying to get one I'll probably date her yes
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Depends. Most of the time, I'd say she shouldn't have time for dating and if she does, her motives are clear.
.. that is unless she inherited a trust fund and doesn't need to work
I don’t have one, so there’s no reason to look down on her. And even if I did, it’s just a natural career issue if she’s trying. No big deal.
May I ask why you're unemployed?
Epilepsy and the side effects caused by my medication. I literally can’t get out of the house by myself. (My dad’s too busy with his job and I have no friends for help.)
I'm sorry to hear about that!
The doctors are trying to reduce the side effects. It’s making progress, but taking so very many years...
I'd really not want to go through that again so, the answer is no.
Yes
As long as she's not a dumb lazy golddigger trophywife.
Fuck that right off
If there is a goal in mind that she's working at, trying to find work, studying, etc wouldn't bother me. Buy if she sits at home every day looking at YouTube videos , complaining she's bored... Sorry, um can't help you
If i work you need to work too. Im not going to pay for everything
I find it preferable, because it's easier that she can date me in my free time.
Of course - I'm a guy. It's women who "require" man to have a job, right?
It's not a deal-breaker, but where would I meet her? most of my contacts with women are through their jobs...
well it depends on her reason for not working but yes i would id just make her work another way😉
Depends if she is happily sitting at home (then its a no) or really tring to get a job (then yes)
As I said in the other thread, that would depend on whether it was a temporary situation or a lifestyle.
Yeah as long as she's hot/pretty, and also if she's actively looking. What's the problem?
Good looks aren't forever... Superficial much?
@gigi7 Attraction is important. Duh much?
Attraction is necessary. But a relationship is not merely about looks... Or would you date any girl as long as she's hot? Would you dump her for someone hotter?
@gigi7 No one said it's *only* about looks, it's merely the first thing people notice about each other. And passion is necessary to couples staying happy with each other. Have you never experienced that for yourself, or something? And would I dump her for someone hotter... hmm. Dunno. It would depend on whether we were having problems or not. But really, people should just not assume that most relationships should be monogamous, because monogamy isn't natural, and then it wouldn't be a problem for people to have sex with other people. People would stay happier as a result.
That's your opinion; probably because you've never been in love? I have a boyfriend and he's definitely attractive to me, but his personality is the reason I'm in love with him... I don't feel the need to be with anybody else, or have sex outside our relationship. It is what it is
@gigi7 I have definitely been in love. Indeed, it is what it is.
Gold digger? or just on hard times? if the latter yes.
If she was a student or going through some sort of other training, then that's fine.
She doesn't need a W2 in order to spread her legs. Just be careful she doesn't "OOPS" you into an 18 year annuity.
Duuuude, most men don't make nearly enough for the child support they would pay to be worth all that trouble...
@wolfcat87 That's why it's best that you don't let her know your name or address.
It depends if she's trying to get one. I mean if she stays at home without foing anything to get a job I guess not but if she's trying to get one I'll probably date her yes
Yeah i will but would gitls date a guy (who is trying his hardest) with no job?
Why the dislike i was asking honestly
lol it depends on the age
I don't care if she works or not as long as we're into each other
Depends on the reasoning behind the lack of work, and it really just depends on how much u care for her