I've always wondered why women don't show interest more often. I know when I was younger, I totally missed the queues, but now it's a rare occasion to notice a girl check me out. I've missed ample opportunities with women because they never showed interest, or made clear that they were interested. I've gotten the "look you up and down" look a few times with that look of "damn you fine" (unfortunately it's usually when I'm with the person I'm seeing) Casual flirting is nice and all, but that tends to be how taken people act as well. Friendliness and flirting are almost the same. I know a lot of women like being chased, but for many people, if we don't know you like us like that, we won't chase you.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't take my friendliness as flirting... That's a problem.. I can't be nice to a guy without him thinking I want to jump on his dick? LOL no wonder women nowadays don't show that much interest with that kind of assumption. I'd only show as much interest as you show me.3
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Most Helpful Guy
Because they aren't required too.
Men have been raised to believe we need to "win women over"
Women have been raised to expect men to do the chasing.
Therefore women are like a firewall getting constant attempts to access the server... they only allow in what they want and swat away all other attempts. There is no real effort or work required on their part.1