Can friends with benefits turn to something else?

[Anonymous]

ok let say M and i we used to have fun a lot but he is my ex’s friend’s brother so it couldnt be more further. bcoz i get back with my ex and i pushed him away and now he actually have a real girlfriend which its good for him. the things is he texted me saying he got back to my city and wanna meet. we ended up had sex and we did it everytime we are free. basically he meet me more often than his girlfriend. we talked only in sc. he texted me sometimes in ig to asked who im going out with by my ig story. i start to catch a feelings for him tho but i didn't feel like he need to break up with his girlfriend and be with me. i actually like how the things is rn but i need some suggestion about it. what would you do if u were me? please no harmful comment or insult. i just need really helpful comment x

[Pizza_lover159]

Sorry girl. But he wants just sex , even if he were with you , after awhile he would get another sex buddy. If he had respect for his girlfriends he would sleep with you while in a relationship. If I were you , I'll probably dump him and tell his girlfriend what he does. Maybe she doesn't even know. And girls shoyld be in the same team. If my boyfriend would sleep around without me knowing it , I would really appreciate if someone told me. Just find a guy who can actually give you all , not just sex. Because you can get sex anytime. But you can't get someone who loves you and appreciate you , no matter what was your past. I dont like guys like that , I think his relationships mean nothing for him and all he wants is just sex girl. Stay away from him , you'll end heart broken. Because you probably like him already :)

[doglover77]

It is very possible for things to turn into something more. It's a unique situation with yours though. He is cheating in his girlfriend. That also opens up new doors as to if he's faithful. Like would he cheat on you?

[PillowThief]

I'm going to say yes, it can go further, but no, it's likely not a very good idea. Start with a normal friendship and work toward a relationship from there, but don't start with something that lacks any notion of exclusivity by definition.

[Jamesthemistokleous]

I would either put a bita distant between us for a while or just keep things the way they are until either he wants to stop or the relationship with his current girlfriend ends

[Asker]

thank you

[Jamesthemistokleous]

You're absolutely welcome 😁

[Maddie03]

He won't be interested in a relationship with you because you give it out too easy.

[Wafflesareamazballs]

No someone ALWAYS gets hurt in a friends with benefits situation.

[sparklefairy]

Yes and no

[findingdreamland-1]

It can... but in your story he is cheating his girlfriend so he can cheat on you too. If i were you i would not be with him.

[reptocarl]

Not very often

[Chaoseverywhere]

if i treat them too nice/they stay too long, they fall (so i tell them i'm moving to antartica or something.

If i treat them like trash, they felt used and become depressed.

WTF GIRLS?

[winterfox10]

I've never seen that work. FWBs just hurt each other.

[SomeGuy965]

Of course it can, but it should not. You both go on knowing you're just there for the sex and can hang out and be friends too, but not in it to get married or anything serious

[harleydude202]

Don't mean any disrespect but anything to happens when someone is cheating on someone never works, your a side chick and in order to be real love 1. You moat respect yourself before you start something 2. He will cheat on you in the future. These are facts... I'm sorry

[emma_13569]

my friends with benefits and I are now msrried and have a kid and one on the way, so my friends with benefits went on to more

[Foxhoundxof]

Do these benefits include medical?

[nina2992]

Sure love happens

[Lifeasasasavage]

Yeah especially if you talk about personal stuff and not just sex

[ANW16]

Maybe.

[FriendlyGemini]

If he's cheating on his girlfriend with you there's a good chance he'd cheat on you with somebody else. He made you the girl on the side. If you don't respect yourself he won't respect you either so it might be best to stop the relationship all together. Besides... his girlfriend will probably be really hurt by this

[jirwin7979]

It depends i guess but in my case i am protecting my heart

[maxcates]

It's possible but it really depends on the people.

[ItalianHun]

He's not relationship material.. the guys straight up cheating on his girlfriend and your ok with that? What makes you think he won't go and do the same thing to you? Seriously lol...

[TheOg]

Sometimes, but mostly no.

[QuietRunner]

it can, but you have to be careful on what you want.

If it is the friends with benefits then you need to work hard at keeping it like that.

Once love shows up, then you are on path to a breakup or marraige