Is it cheating if my boyfriend and masterbating to other women on instagram?

[Anonymous]

So last night my boyfriend and I were talking about me getting an Instagram ( cause I don’t have one ) and he was saying he didn’t want me to show off my body cause I do have a curvy body and he didn’t want men saying things. He then proceeds about a page on instagram that has women of my body type and he was joking that I’d be on there and then he talks about a woman that’s on there. And it caught me off guard and I’m like how do you know her tag name like that and he blames it on his friend that he hasn’t seen for a year and I’m like he’s lying to me. And later that night I asked him if he goes on there a lot and he’s like no but he’s laughing at the same time and I know he’s lying to my face. So today I went on the woman’s page cause she’s popular on the other one and I immediately get pissed because I know he jacks off to her and other things. Is this technically cheating since he is jacking off to a woman and not me? Does he see me as not as beautiful as her?

[Kenanimator]

He doesn't respect YOU if he doesn't want you to do everything that he does.
Plain and simple.
IF he doesn't want you to feel erotic as same time he's banging off, he is the problem.
If he doesn't respect you, dump him.
IF you're married, you can always keep it secret from him.
True that it won't help your marriage, but IF you need to see it to be satisfied, why should he complain?

[jimyee]

Is it cheating if people masturbate to porn? No. The Instagram models are often pretty much the same.

[Asker]

But, with porn you’re masterbating cause you’re turned on by the activity of someone else having sex. The instagram models are just posing half naked. Don’t you see it as hypercritical that he doesn’t want me to post bikini pics but he’s jacking off women that post those types of pictures?

[jimyee]

Movie format has only recently become the norm for porn. When I was a kid pictures were used far more often than videos and often they were of just one women posing seductively, much like an Insta model.
Like I said most of the Instagram models are basically porn models. They know that posting those pictures are going to illicit a certain response. And your boyfriend doesn't want other guys masturbating towards you which is fair, I wouldn't want guys to masturbate to my girl either.

[jellyroo]

Wait, when did you find out he's jacking off to this person? Did he tell you or did you assume?

[jakeforfun]

He's not into you to the degree you'd like. He's hiding things. He is cheating, in a way, because you might have something to say about him "wasting" YOUR cum, without permission. You might want to get rid of him. Talk to him about your concerns, and see how that pans out.

[YeaNo]

I would consider it cheating if he is in contact with them.
Unfortunately due to the internet porn and images like you're talking about are very easy to obtain.
Our generation has serious issues because we've wired our brains to respond to instant gratification.
Same goes for women with selfies.
My suggestion would be to voice your concern with him and to forgive him.
Tell him how it makes you feel, if he cares he will try to stop, but it is an addiction.

[superduperstarr]

Sounds like you two have some trust issues. Who cares if he is masturbating to other womens pics and masturbating is not cheating. I bet that models boyfriends masturbates to other womens photos and videos. Sounds like you two should do a bit of soul searching or kick each other to the curb.

[Zeriya]

I wouldn't say it's cheating, but how he's doing it isn't respectful. So you still have every right to be upset about it.

[GreenGold1992]

No it's not cheating, he's just jacking off to pics on the internet, not with an actual real person. If it bothers you, you should tell him how it makes you feel.

[BOUNTYGUY9]

l would never do that l dont like guys that do that l wank with my girl and l play with my girls pussy xx

[naughty_dost]

Won't consider that as cheating... May be he loves you but jacks off at times to release his sexual tensions

[Justforfun411]

Yes if he's doing that on the internet without your blessing then its the same as cheating. he's not satisfied with you so he's going somewhere else to get his needs met. Time for a new boyfriend.

[johnieohm]

No its healthy and normal, why not be that woman of what he wants sexually

[Ephemera1]

If a dude is jacking off to pictures of girls on Instagram, he's a sick bastard. There's literally free porn everywhere. That's just weird.

[guitarlover1]

No. If he were doing it to a layout of a woman in Playboy, would that be cheating

[Anonymous]

We've all jerked off to someone on instagram and facebook

[akarsh17]

If u had sex and if he is still doing that it's better u leave him!

[dragon9669]

It sounds like you need to put out more or dump his sorry ass

[Asker]

So you agree that this is messed up for him as a boyfriend to do?

[dragon9669]

Very much so

[Billywu]

Not really you need to show him more affection you stroke it for him

[AlwaysBelieving]

It depends if you think it's cheating

[Myplace22]

How would that be cheating?

[jjj101010]

It’s not uncommon, happy to explain more if u want