I've always moved on if I'm interested in a woman but she just wants to be friends. Oddly enough, some women get pissy when I respect that they don't want a relationship and I also don't want to be just friends. Like they are entitled to my friendship
@jessture That may happen too. But that's on them. As far as I am concerned, I don't really date men who can't see themselves as my friend, partially because I am polyamorous and have ongoing erotic friendships with people, so the line between friend and lover is blurred. If I meet men (and women) who are not already in this very extensive network of friends, then they quickly become adopted in, somehow, some way. So, I just don't bother with men who aren't ready to be a good friend because I don't have to. I prefer a more well rounded emotional connection, or fuller, or more congenial? I don't know how I would describe it since I am not knocking how other people conduct their love lives.
Why is it so bad that women want friends asuch as men do? Men can have female friends and not have the expectation that they're keeping those women on some friend zone leash. I don't get why it's so bad for women to have male friends when men can have female friends and no one bats an eye.
@Xasildo They have plenty of choice to seek for friendship other than guys they reject. They're not entitled to force those specific guys, same way a guy has plenty of choice to seek for romantic relationships instead of harassing a girl who explicitly rejected him.It's openly unfair that women feel so entitled to force others to be their friends because they didn't want a relationship with them, that's my point. Same way it's unfair a guy in denial refuses to accept being rejected. We're supposed to be equally respected here.
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sooooo true x)
So you friendzone ugly dudes?
yup most of the guys that are my friends are friend zoned for that reason. It's also the reason I always hang out in groups. And most of the cute guys that are my friends just have really childish personalities.
So would you rather, a hot guy with a shitty personality or an average dude with a good personality
I never said I wouldn't date an average dude... my boyfriend is pretty average with a great personality which is why I'm with him. I said no uglyyyyyy people ( ugly based on my opinion of course).
Yeah, that's the friendzone.
The "friend zone" is something you guys created in your heads. You can't get into every girls pants. I have a friend who says he's in the friend zone with me but I just value him as a FRIEND. There's no amount of him asking me out, texting me, buying me food, trying to take me places that will change that and you guys need to just respect the fact that not everyone wants a relationship with you. Not everyone wants to date you or kiss you or have you get in their pants. Some of you "friendzoned" guys even still try when a girl is in a relationship and that's not ok. Most of us aren't keeping you around because we're hoping maybe one day when things don't work out in the dating scene and we can fall back on you, we keep you around because we value your opinions and your loyalty. So no the friend zone doesn't exist.
You've just defined the friendzone. What do you THINK it means?
I think it's cute when men say there isn't a friend zone no one has anything to say to them but as soon as a woman says there isn't she's wrong and you, for some bizarre reason, feel the desperate need to argue.
Be confident bro. Be yourself, take breath of you need n just show em u know how to be cool n have some fun.
Im not in the friendzone but thanks, that's good advice
Damn, you are a wise fellow
Thanks bro. Lol
Wat? Its Ryan Reynolds.
Sorry I always mistake their last names
Why the face?
That is one way of doing it... :-P