Girls, do you date men you think are physically unattractive? (Page 2)
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I meant to vote no. But that girl sounds a little misguided..
Not at all... Physical attraction is a must for me... If I don't find the person attractive I won't date him... 😊
I mean, fuck. I want my man to look good. I want him to be attractive. We are all shallow humans and yeah, I'm a shallow bitch haha. There is lots of liberation in honesty.
You can be ugly and yet ve attractive. I know people who are ugly but will have something attractive about them. Perhaps him being nice makes him attractive to her.
Attractiveness has to do with facial aesthetics, not so much personality. Liking someone for personality is respect, not so much attraction.
Not all attractive men treat women well. It’s easy to see past their physical looks if the person is nice, treats you with respect and you can just get along well with them.
Don’t you think that would be playing with his feelings considering that he would be more of a asset than a lover? Think about it, he is probably thinking you actually find him attractive but in reality you are only with him because of his personality while thinking he is ugly.
How? Attraction is and always has been subjective in nature. It is more than ok to find someone’s personality, intelligence, or sense of humor more attractive than their physical features. Also, the more you love someone for who they are, the more attractive they become to you overall.
Is this an issue that you have personally experienced?
I’ve had to reject several woman who’ve I’ve suspected only liked me for my personality. I want a woman to be primarily attracted to my looks.
I imagine it must not feel too great knowing someone doesn’t find you physically attractive so I can understand your perspective, but how unfortunate would it be that you ended something prematurely with a great girl just trying to preserve your ego?
Also, in what way did you feel that you were being used as an “asset” by these women? Did they want to be with you only for the sex, money, gifts, rent, etc?
They said I’m a nice person. Now keep in mind that I get called handsome a lot by many women but I don’t think they are being sincere.
I just want to know for certain that they also like me for my looks aside from my personality.
I’m quite the opposite I guess. I’d rather know that they found other things about me to be attractive since everyone’s looks will fade as we age.
Sounds like you are insecure about your appearance if you must find someone who can sufficiently reassure you that you are handsome to them. I would look into maybe talking to a professional about that since it is obviously affecting your relationships with women.
I don’t need professionals, they usually aren’t any good. I just don’t want to be deceived. What’s the point of dating a woman that doesn’t even find me attractive? I know that I’m handsome but I also know that looks are subjective.
Well, if it helps any, you don’t exactly come across as a typical ‘nice guy’ since you easily dismissed the women who have complimented your looks in the past and even went so far as to question their veracity. Thus, you must have some other attractive attributes, so good for you. 👍
I don’t know if you will ever find a woman who finds you physically attractive enough for you to believe her if you have never trusted a woman who has called you handsome in the past, but I do wish you well on your search. Peace.
I’m a nice person, I was polite when I rejected them, I didn’t tell them why I was rejecting them.
my ex wasn't very attractive, but I thought he was a good person and that's all I cared about.
Then I found out he actually has a shitty personality and never cared about me.
No but I have met unattractive guys who have very nice personalities. I have also encountered unattractive guys who have very horrible attitudes.
My ex wasn't attractive, I mean he wasn't terrible but yeah, anyway he had a great personality (at the start) so I was with him for a while - the looks never really bothered mr
If you have a nice personality, for some that’s all they want. Sure you’re not physically atttractive but you have someone who supports you emotionally.
"I am not this hair this skin I am the soul that lives within" -Rumi
I typically fall in love with their personality to me looks aren't that important
So you’ll still date a ugly guy?
Yes I would
Do actually find men to be visually appealing or do you only care about their personalities.
Yes I am physically attracted to men
Then why date men you find unattractive? Dating ugly men implies you don’t actually find men to be good looking.
I don't know
One last question. By your definition, what makes a man physically attractive?
Um um um I don't really know