Most Helpful Girls
Intelligence alone cannot make an ugly person attractive. It can make a person more attractive, though. Personality does that. For example: I meet a guy and go "meh" at first. He's not unattractive, but I wasn't swept off my feet either. But then I get to know him. I find out that he's smart, funny and just a great guy who I have lots of things in common with. When that happens I could see him in a new light and it's very possible that I might fall in love with him. And then I also start to notice that I actually really like the way he looks, that he has a really cute smile and pretty blue eyes. A matching personality can make someone so much more attractive and even more beautiful.
Uh... Yes it would make him more attractive. My definition of intelligence is what choices a guy makes in his life and what he says and how mature he is, how wise he is and if he's open minded And how emotionally intelligent he is. School education isn't that much important... Like eh, u can still be successful even without A plus grades. But of course good school education isn't a turn off either. I would of course date a guy with good grades and academic intelligence. But I'm just saying if the guy who's smart at school stuff doesn't have a bit of the stuff I mentioned above about the type of guy who's open minded, mature etc. Then yes, he would be a complete turn off. I've known many assholes in my life who have good grades or don't think before they speak and are dumb about everything else and gossip but are only good at school subjects and good grades , etc. and I despise them. They don't know about emotional intelligence and only academic intelligence. How sad... there r different types of intelligence tbh. There's analytical intelligence or something like that and I like that. Etc. But my definition of smart is different from the rest of society I guess. I guess I'm the only woman who thinks like this. 😂 Self awareness will fix all of the bad things, if that makes sense. I don't know if what I'm saying makes sense but whatever I don't care. Society is just being mean and saying that people who don't have perfect grades are dumb. because society In general is dumb. They listen to what people say all the time and follow what they say. It's not always true tho. Society likes brainwashing people into thinking this is what it is and u have to believe it , etc.
Most Helpful Guys
I disagree, that's a wishy washy, unrealistic cliche that harms people in the long term.
Some people will say they do, only to repress their physical dissatisfaction as the relationship progresses. No different than settling for someone because that person has some positive trait, that at some point it won't be enough to cover for the elephant in the room.
I think one should grow up and learn to take responsibility about recognizing one's own needs instead of pretending they aren't, and this doesn't mean affecting others negatively.