Any girls on here in Recovery (Drugs/Alcohol)?
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It is a tough position to be in because unless both of you are doing positive things for yourselves it is easy to get together, start having fun - the excitement of getting together - and relapse again. I've been there a few times and the only way to get focused is to distance yourself from all of it, including the ones you love the most. I'm sure you both miss each other but at the end you have to ask yourself about the risk of getting back together. Those things need time, a lot of time and probably she needs to be sure that if you guys started seeing each other you would not relapse. I understand her position, she's being selfish for her own good, I've done it myself, she's maybe scared to try. But how do you feel? Do you feel you're focused? What's going on in your life? I think she needs to be sure you're doing good.
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