However I do want a relationship and I am sexually attracted to men so I'm really conflicted. I would like to find a way to get over this as surely all men can't be as horrible as the ones that I've met. Any advice? I'm wondering whether it might be easier to at least experience the sexual part of a relationship by asking a male friend. It might cause complications but I'm more likely to trust them. As long as they are willing of course!
Most Helpful Girl
Growing up watching my sister get continuously hurt by countless men really caused me to have the same problem as you. I have zero problem working with them and being friends. I have never dated a day in my life due to it.
But, I'm trying to get over it. I find being friends with them first and slowly allowing yourself to open up is the best option. I feel like I am getting better at it. But like you, I still have room for improvement.
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Most Helpful Guy
Why you need men? Why you think you are afraid of? Answering this will allow you to anderstand reason , then u have to decide if you really wanna try to know them... start having make friends , also always know that all men aren't same and not all of them are bad.