He hasn’t messaged since. He is a calling person, and busy with uni back this week (possibly exam week). I don’t want to pursue him and ask for a second date, but is it bad for me to casually message him, or maybe just ask if he was just after casual fun or not? Input is appreciated! X
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I would say there's a couple main reasons why.
1 could be he doesn't want to seem to keen/interested and come across as "desperate" - yes even though the date went well and all that.
2 could be he is busy with uni, or maybe a mix of other things in life and just wants to be available to ask you out on the second date.
3 could be he had a good time, but not as much as you did, and just isn't feeling the connection you do.
4 is lastly, he might just be interested in casual fun like you said.
I would wait a couple more days, say to the end of the week (if you don't hear by Monday, maybe send him a cheeky little message and see how/if it he replies, and take it from there)
Now, this is the opinion of someone who's not been on any real "dates", and has only been in a relationship for 3 weeks of his life, so take my advice with a grain of salt. Just thought i'd give my own thoughts on it. Would much prefer you listen to someone who knows about this stuff.