I took it as a joke but it kinda offended me. I don’t want to have to change my personality for a guy who ask me out. Is this a red flag?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. He's looking for someone you aren't and if so, you're not likely to ever be a good match. Part ways as friends so you can both find a better match while everyone is happy. And remember, this isn't anyone's fault, and no one failed, that's why you date, to see if you make a good pair.
Most Helpful Girl
As you shouldn't. If he's not all about your personality then it's time to move on and find some one that can appreciate you for you