Most Helpful Girl
I don't really even have arguments with partners, to which many people used to say things like "you don't love each other if you're not passionate enough to fight" and "you can't be having good sex if you don't have make up sex" - and I say it's total BS.
You guys have been going for four years- you're doing something right!
Ever person, every couple and every relationship is different, I personally think fights are pretty destructive, and I don't get how people live yelling at one another every day- what's normal for you IS normal- it doesn't matter what other people do- if you've avoided fighting, good for you and I hope you guys carry on that way.
Those who say it's weird or wrong not to tear chunks out of one another on a weekly basis are the ones getting it wrong in my eyes- you don't have to scream and shout to understand each other, to discuss differences and create compromises.