Ok so I was dating a girl who was hot and cold I really liked her but after a while I got sick of it and stopped pursuing her. Well... me and her work together and she stays being overly friendly and at times I feel like she wants me to rekindle things but as a man and the one who put more of the effort in the first time around I feel like it's on her she screwed things up so I think it should be common sense it's on her to speak up about starting over. So could she be scared to speak Up? I'm nice to her so I don't see why. Is she scared of rejection?