I feel like he's tired emotionally, and even bored.
Im getting lack or affection and its effecting me negatively. I caught him talking to another girl behind my back and I treated him really badly. We talked and we are seeing if we can rekindle what was lost. Im getting bored he’s getting bored. The lack of affection in my relationship is affecting me negatively. A three way was something we always talked about but never done together (i have in the past he never experienced it). part of me feels like inviting another girl in bed could rekindle that fire we once had. Im craving affection if its from him or another (i’m not going to cheat) but something has to change I can't keep living like this. I love to love. and I want to feel love.
So yeah, will a three way be a good thing to do? or will it completely screw everything up?:) any advice on how to rekindle lost flame?
I already talked to him about what we can do to rekindle our relationship and get that drive back and he doesn’t know.
Most Helpful Guy
A 3way will not do what you want to reignite a spark. I have a couple close friends that did this one a 3some the other a swinging situation. Both said things got hotter but it was only because of the other person or persons involved and it was short lived in both situations they ended up getting divorced and in one situation the woman ended up continuing to have sex with the other guy and they ended up together. If things have lost their luster with you 2 you need to solve each other not just add another variable
Most Helpful Girl
Doubtful, if anything it’s more likely to drive a bigger wedge with all of the unknowns. If the sex is better with the third party, any jealousy that arises, if one pays more attention to the third than to their partner and a lack of respect for one another.
Reinvigorating a relationships takes acknowledgement and effort on both parts - but if you’re both bored and thinking a third person is what’s going to bring you closer together it seems like long term with each other isn’t really going to work out
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