Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't have said lunch/dinner is best 1st date.
I'd have said coffee/drink, easier to get away from if it goes South.
Second date, walk along the river then dinner.
Be honest with him. Why start a potential relationship compromising yourself that way. He'll respect you for being honest, it won't bother him to change the date
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's a good idea to involve physical activity. I went on a date once where we went for a hike. He was saying he's physically active & became so judgmental about himself, saw a bit of his true self on that date. :/