If a guy keeps using candom while sex even tho , knowing each other years, tested nega does he really have feelings for her or is she just being used?


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  • Honestly I think that if he's still wearing a condom he's being respectful to you and your body. He's not taking a chance on getting you pregnant not because he doesn't care but because things happen. Usually at the wrong time. God has a funny sense of humor.

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  • Instead of fucking the friend without a condom to see if he wants a kid. How about you ask him. Because what if you get pregnant then tell him your pregnant and he don't want it. Now your a single parent and you fucked yourself and the kid. Talk to him. Ask him to become your boyfriend take things slow ask questions that relate to marriage (future kids, goals, stuff other than sex). Don't just jump into things because the sex is good.

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  • He's just being smart. No form of birth control is 100% effective. People on the pill or the implant can still get pregnant, sometimes even a vasectomy doesn't block 100% of the man's sperm. So it's a lot safer to use condoms as well as whatever she's using.

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  • A guy can love a woman and still not want to risk having children maybe he just doesn't want to have children at all maybe he doesn't feel his life currently is in a place where he wants to have children maybe he doesn't feel like your relationship is strong enough to have children
    None of these really says anything about how he feels about her only what he feels about the risk of unwanted pregnancy

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  • Women have total (therefore excessive) control over reproduction and men lack reproductive rights.
    You basically want to strip him of what little control he has?
    As soon as you get pregnant, he gets financially obligated for 20 years or so, while being possibly kicked out and separated from his kids without much legal recourse.
    If you want a kid, talk to the man! But what you're suggesting here sounds like you want to strip him of what little control he has over his life.

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    • Don't be dramatic... what if the female just wanna skin not robber for once

    • Answer the following questions honestly (to yourself):
      - If you take the pill, can you lie and trap the man with pregnancy?
      - Do you have ALL the decisionary power to go to term?
      - If pregnant, can you leave the man without his knowing of pregnancy?
      - Do you have ALL power to keep the child or give it up for adoption?
      - If having the baby, do you have the backing of the law to extract money from the man for decades though he may have been opposed to having a child?
      - Can you anytime separate and be very confident to get custody while the man will be mostly deprived of sharing his kid's life?
      - Last but not least... would you feel vulnerable and powerless if the balance of power was reversed?

  • I don’t think a condom has anything to do with how a guy feels

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    • Your wrong... if he has no intention of ever building a family with that female he will use a candom there so I rest my cass

    • Whether or not he wants kids has nothing at all to do with how he feels about you.

      It's something you need to discuss with him, because if you disagree on that you probably shouldn't be together for practical reasons, but that's a different topic.

  • Just being cautious nothing wrong with that. It's not just bout diseases, unexpected pregnancies as well. He's being sensible.

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  • You are trying to use him by asking him to take off the condom

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  • It depends

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  • he prolly doesn't want no baby mama drama lol...

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  • Ask him, he knows better.

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  • Just ask him

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  • Testing negative for STI's doesn't prevent pregnancy.

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    • But they know each other for year y can't come action go on

    • Because then you might get pregnant. What part of this don't you understand?

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