Whenever he seems to be upset, he doesn’t want to talk about it all the time he would rather be left alone. For example today I was sick off school so I didn’t get to see him and he told me that he would call me that night. After school he posted something on his private instagram account with the caption “Shitty day :/“ So I asked him what was wrong and he told me he didn’t want to talk about it. That he didn’t feel like calling and that it didn’t have anything to do with me but he just wanted to be left alone.
Now I am worried and upset and I just want him to tell me what is up. I don’t really know if it has anything to do with me but he told me it didn’t, I always just think the worst.
Should I just leave it for now and leave him alone? Someone please help me understand xx
Most Helpful Girl
I think that you should respect his wishes and give him some space. If he said it's not about you then I would believe him. When he's ready to talk about whatever happened, he will. I know it's hard but pressuring him to talk about something when he's told you he doesn't want to will only push him further away. You just have to take a step back and wait for him to come to you. Sometimes you just have to let people have their space and then when they're ready, they will open up.
Most Helpful Guy
it seems you just answered yourself...
but yeah, some people just like being alone, and can't open up about what theyre feeling. you gotta learn to respect that. just tell him that you're always there if he wants to talk about it, and that's that. if it's something actually important, don't worry, he will let you know.