Am I truly in the friend zone or is this a test?
I ended up dating a co-worker and we hit it off very well. Things were kept a secret for the most part; it was obvious to some that her and I had an attraction but it was only hearsay at that point. Unfortunately for me, I have the attention of most of the females that we work with (single and available guy). Long story short, we had a great time one weekend, ran in to a few colleagues that have a thing for me. A few days later I was informed that false rumors about myself and another person at work may begin to surface, I informed her of it and she replied that she can no longer date a co-worker; too much drama etc. She told me that we will be platonic friends and that I can contact her. When I call, she doesn't answer and sends a text reply stating that she's busy; then proceeds to call a few minutes later. I've basically stopped making an effort to talk to her.
Why is it so hard to let go of someone who doesn't love you the way you love them? Blonde, redhead, or brunette? Who catches your eye first? Guys, do you want your woman independent or clingy? Why? Would you leave your romantic partner if somebody better came along? Is church a good place to look for girls?
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