Most Helpful Girl
Yes. He obviously isn't over her. You need to move on to someone willing to be open and honest. I always have an upfront open honest conversation one time after we hit it off.. some times before the first date and some times after 1 date or more dates. Get it out in the open and don't dwell. Gives a chance to "air the dirty laundry" ask and a swer questions and gives you and the other person to it move forward if it isn't something they are willing to handle or deal with. I have 2 kids and will have to deal with my ex for the next 5 years without negotiation and probably for the rest of my life because I want to be able to be a part of my kids lives as adults. Our divorce was horrible and not friendly by any means and we still don't like each other. We avoid each other. I have some guys won't to continue talking because we are not on friendly terms and they are with their ex but they also did not withstand or put their ex through years of verbal, mental, emotional and physical abuse.
Most Helpful Guy
I've never seen such an intelligent person in my life lol you did the right thing, people like that aren't worth it, mostly if they told you once that they are using you, like come on how could you even argue with yourself if you did the right thing or not