This guy and I met on Bumble, and we hit it off pretty quickly, and have been texting for a month. First off, he just turned 28 and I’m 20. When we first started talking, he wouldn’t stop mentioning his ex, so I asked him if he was over her, and he said that he’s still in love with her, but is trying to move on. So I assumed she broke up with him. One time, he told me that he was just using me to get over his ex, so I stopped talking to him for a while. We started talking again after, he stopped mentioning his ex, and things were going good. However, one day, he’ll text me something like, “I really like you” and the next day, he’ll tell me that he slept over his ex’s house because she wasn’t feeling well. Then he’ll tell me that he’s falling for me more and more each day, he talks to me “about our future”, and he even asked how I’d feel introducing him to my mom. Then he’ll tell me that he’s too old for me and that I’ll find a guy some day. As I mentioned above, he said that he was still in love with his ex, so I asked him how/why did things end, and he didn’t tell my how/why, instead he said, “we broke up and she smashed all of the gifts I gave her over the years” so I asked if he broke up with her, and he said basically yes. However, if he was still in love with her, why did he break up with her? I showed some of my friends our messages (I’m not experienced with dating) and they saw multiple lies/red flags. Anyway, he’s traveling to where I am (for his job) but he also asked me out on a date. I agreed at first, then I told him I’d rather not go out with him (I gave him reasons) and he hasn’t texted me back. So, do you think I made the right decision?