So over the last few months I have been atempting to get back out into the dating scene. A few girls have accepted my invitation for a drink or a meal, and then we continue to talk and meet up. Once a couple of weeks have passed and I feel like I know them better, I ask them if they would like to get serious and go steady. They tell me "awe you're sweet, but I'm not looking for a relationship right now." A week later I see that they are in a relationship with someone. Why can't they just tell me that they aren't interested. The lie hurts so much more.