Do I stay silent and let him crack on with her and let him contact me if he misses me and wants to meet up? Or do I contact him first and see if he's still meeting her? I know it could sound silly because we haven't even met before, but we spoke for hours every day and I did really like him. He said he really liked me but this girl he met (the SECOND I blocked him) has made him "feel really good about himself." What's the most attractive thing I can do? I'd never want to come across as desperate.
Most Helpful Guy
See all you can do is make urself comfortable and also the guy comfortable. The best thing that a person can do in a relationship is sacrifice. If the guy is really well bounded to that girl then I think u shud sacrifice ur love, because if u really love him then u would think about his well beings. And if d guy wants to meet u still now, then I would say u shud meet him. Friendship is hard to get, so it will b awkward to lose such a close frnd. But if he doesn't want to meet u, then u shud stop thinking about him and start a new life. Stay happy and keep others happy. All d best. Well wishes for future.
Most Helpful Girl
Blocking him and ignoring is never a good thing to do. So please next time dont do such things unless you want them to stop caring for you!
However you might try to see how he is doing. You will seem desperate but that doesn't have to be a bad thing if you really like him.
To me the only thing you can do is be direct. Tell him that you still like him and want things to work. You'll get an direct answer back whether he thinks the same.