Most Helpful Guy
He isn't very respectful. Like I lift weights but I'm not the biggest fan of bikini competes (i assume that's what you mean) but I'd never say something like that. I'd encourage the girl even if I don't care about the event I just care they're ambitious about something and be supportive.
He also didn't seem all that concerned that you were sick. Like he didn't wish you to feel better or ask if he could help (i know people can't really do anything to actually help but it just feels good knowing someone cares when they ask that and he didn't even bother).
I think you can do better. I come from a marine family with my dad being a marine so the attitude can't just be excused by the military. I have several marine friends who act respectful and classy with women.
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Most Helpful Girl
Its just a date, wouldn't hurt to go that way you would know for sure. But at the same time if fitness is something that is a big deal to you are you going to be ok with him not caring about it. Secondly, unless your willing to do the long distance thing it could also be a waste of time.. and from personal experience tinder to me seems all about rhe hook ups