Most Helpful Guy
That's like the biggest red flag on the planet. Like no reasonable man would get upset a girl he just met wouldn't come into his home.
Dump him. Like this is for your life and safety don't let him be affectionate or sorrowful with his words and give him another chance. Think about it. This is the FIRST time meeting and he is already displaying anger towards you because you acted reasonably. Think about that.
Most Helpful Girl
If he could get upset over something so simple and because you said no, imagine when it's actually serious. Maybe he thought you would be down to have sex... don't bother with him! that's so unattractive.