Why are girls attracted to socially successful guys but then resent us for being socially successful?
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Were programmed to look for attractive people to be able to pick good genes for our future kids. The thing is with time people realize that looks isn't all. A man can be poor, he might not be Brad Pitt, but he can be the most amazing person youve ever known. Unfortunately other people never realize that and never look deeper under the looks losing their chance of happiness. But you know what they say: For every good man you turn down you get 1 cat when you turn 40. :D
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I don't feel that the idea of being attracted to "socially successful" guys applies to me, as I'm one who tends to steer away from men who have loads of admirers as I truly don't like the feeling of "competing" for attention. I mean I don't care for a socially awkward person, but I don't care to end up with a man who isn't able to treat me differently than other women so that I know that I'm viewed in a different lens than all those other women who claw at him. I'm rather repelled by men who enjoy charming multiple women to gain a means of fluffing his ego.
Because they want what they want. They want the socially successful, confident guys, but they want to have them to themselves. They want the stud to be totally committed to them and to ignore all other girls.
Guys try to do this with me all the time. I get tons of male attention, and that will never stop. But the secret is that a lot of these people are out of their depth with social stars like us, because they can't handle what comes with being with us. An intensely sexy and magnetic person will always draw interest like moths to a flame. People who aren't used to it don't understand it, and it throws them off. A confident guy would know he's better than the guys who are buzzing around me and wouldn't worry.
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