- Most important, confidence is everything
- Highly valued in most cases
- Average, non-alpha males can get laid too
- I can deal with shy guys/I would make the first move
Most Helpful Guys
Confidence matters a lot, but its not everything. You will see a lot of men who is not at all perfect, no materalistic achievments, no outstanding intelligence or measures, no big heart, no phisical fitness, no grit etc. but as long as they are good with theirselves and keep that frame very solid they gonna have some girls. Not any not every, but its not about being loved by EVERYONE, its about finding someone who is compatible.
Why confidence matters? Because a woman wants a man, and a man wants a woman. This, whatever whoever may say, wouldn't change, it's in our veins.
A man should be someone a woman can look up to. So u have to be ok with urself as to look up to yourself first.
It is usually pretty essential to have confidence. For most women, they look to their man when they need guidance. If he is always unsure or cowardly. They won't feel comfortable or secure in who they/you are. Just be you bro.
Most Helpful Girls
Most of the time confidence is super sexy and makes a girl feel wanted. However, a guy who's a bit shy and forces the girl to make the first move can totally be empowering and really awaken a woman to her sexuality. Being shy isn't a 100% no go, but confidence is a pretty great and sought after trait. This being said, each guy should just be himself because everyone likes different things and I for one don't have set traits, depends entirely on the guy. The one thing that needs to be certain is that he's fine with being himself and doesn't change for anyone, it's his life not theirs.
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