its just a really sensitive topic and hearing that come from him really hurt like i wasn't good enough.
Most Helpful Guy
Ok *that* was insensitive of him...
How "lose" you are depends on a number of things, everything from natural differences between girls to just your grip.
Basically how "tight" you feel depends a lot on the muscles inside you squeezing him.
Read up on kegels, pompoir and kabazzah.
This video might help a bit:
If you haven't had all that many orgasms before then those muscles have not recieved much training to strengthen them that way.
And if you don't do kegels either...
Most Helpful Girl
That was a very stupid thing for him to say. All women are different -some are naturally tight, and some are naturally loose. Just like how some women are naturally more lubricated than others. if he doesn't trust you, then that's his problem. There is nothing wrong with you, and bringing that up to him was the right thing to do. If he keeps hurting you with his comments, you need to continue to bring that up to him. Don't stuff down something like this.