Loose virgin wasn't tight enough?

so my boyfriend was my first recently and that was a really big leap for me i never did that with anybody else. But so after we were done he told me " your jaint wasn't as tight as i thought it would be were you really a virgin? what happened with you past relationships y'all was going out for a long time are you sure he didn't hit?" and would say stuff like that and that honestly made me feel some type of way big time so we got in a mini argument because of what he said. its there something wrong with me because i wasn't "tight" enough my first time? was i right to get mad? should i forgive him? should i just suck it up?
its just a really sensitive topic and hearing that come from him really hurt like i wasn't good enough.
Loose virgin wasn't tight enough?
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