I'm am falling for a guy at my job. He carries himself well. He is smart and just gets stuff. He's a churchgoer. He has the dark hair and brown eyes. He has the dark past he now only looks back on. I am afraid to fall for him so I'm trying to get it to where I don't see him as much. He really does seem like he's my soulmate... but I doubt he's into me. What should I do? Thoughts?